How do i know if im over him?

Question

We were together for 6 years and engaged for 5 and broke up three months ago totally unexpected how do i no if im over him?

Answer 1

You're not over him, but that doesn't mean that you can't move on. Feelings don't just disappear. You may just be in a better place now than before. Keep living and each day will get better. After a while (can't give it a time frame) there will be days that he won't cross your mind. Until then, it's normal to think of him and reflect over the years that you shared with him. Just don't romanticize it. Keep it real. There's a reason that the two of you are no longer together. If your life is already in a great place, go for yours. After 6 years, you deserve happiness. Don't concentrate on getting over him. Concentrate on loving you. You are your own best friend and worst enemy. Take care of yourself.

Answer 2

I'd say your far from over him because your asking people this question, if you were over him you wouldn't have bothered would you, he has hurt you big time by doing the break-up routine after you were together so long, your emotions are all over the place, which is natural you don't get over 6 years that quick, but I think you should start putting your own feeling first for once and forget about him, try to get back out into the social circle of things and do your damnedest to move on, I know its hard but be happy.

Answer 3

well think of it like this...... you have been together for six years an engaged for five you said. Dont you think that was just a big waste of time when you could of been with someone else an doing other things with your life instead of being with him. Wont you be pissed about it?! An what makes you think that your not over him? I know that you been with one another for a long time but it sounds like he also waste your time while being with his ***. So do you think that your over him now?

Answer 4

It's easy. You will know when you stop thinking about him. I know because I went through a breakup a while ago, and I knew I was ready to date again when I stopped thinking about my ex. It just takes time, so don't rush into anything yet. Just go out and have fun.

Answer 5

How do you kow if you are over him?????? I would think when your mind isn't occupied by him, when you have moved along with your life in doing things that you want to do. It can be a difficult process for some, but you do get over that person.

Answer 6

you'll know you are over him when:
you don't care who he is dating,
you dont feel like kissing him when you see him
your heart stays a regular beat when you see him or hear from him
you no longer feel the need or urge to text him or call him for no reason
you feel you are ready for a new man in your life
and then finally you allow a new man into your life

Answer 7

You know, I think you should ask him to see a marriage counselor with you. (I know you're not married, but they are really relationship counselors.)

One of two things will happen. Either you'll work through what went wrong and salvage the relationship, or you'll be able to let go.

Good Luck.

Answer 8

If you are with another and you use your exes name in the throws of passion then no you are not over him if you pass that test you are over him if you want help with the test let me help

Answer 9

You realise he wasn't the first thing you thought of when you woke up today and he's not the last thought before you go to sleep.

Answer 10

Take another 3 months to be by yourself and get to know yourself again.