2006-07-30 11:23:28 · 10 answers · asked by Suzita 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I may get hurt, but not jealous at all! In any area!
Jealousy is like a poison...why should I fill my body with harmful poison? It would only make things worse. People who are jealous do not trust in themselves. They feel that somehow there is something wrong with their personality. A piece of advise to those who cannot help it: If you are having a boyfriend or girlfriend and he/she does something that clearly indicates that he does not really care about you, why try and save this relationship? Use your jealousy in your best interest. It may show you things about the other person that you were not aware of...
Love and concern is the antidote to this. Positive things always outweigh the negative ones. And this is the reason why many people are jealous of persons who only know how to love, and have never left space in their hearts for anger and hatred...
Love,
Natalie.:0)
2006-07-31 06:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hardly ever get jealous, romance -wise.
But when I see someone having a really great life, with nice things, charm, success, I can find myself making catty remarks. In my defense, it is usually to their face, and not behind their back! So, not in a cowardly way. But then I feel awful afterwards, and realise I must have been jealous and temporarily lost my mind.
2006-07-30 18:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by jarm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I make a point of not being jealous. The one thing that makes me really angry is when someone insists I am jealous when I am not and there really is no way of proving one's feelings.
My b/f and I had a g/f and the three of us got along really well. I did not feel jealous at all because to me we each had plenty to give the other two and the relationship was a fun caring and loving relationship.
Our g/f had lied to us and I became angry as it was a very important issue when raised the topic because I believed it was better to talk it through both my b/f and my g/f kept insisting I was jealous and trying to make things difficult our of jealousy even though she admitted having lied to us. Honesty is very important to me and I really wanted to deal with what I saw was a big issue. I let the situation go because I realised I wasn't going to be able to deal with it and it was better to preserve the relationship than get my way...
My b/f was not being true to himself and was accepting behaviours frm our g/f that I knew were unacceptable to him and his beliefs. When I tried to talk to him about it he insisted I was jealous and just wanting to cause problems out of jealousy.
I got really angry at being told I was jealous when I was not and even more angry because it was easier gor each of them to see 'jealousy' in me rather than deal with and discuss the real problems.
Our g/f moved on to another relationship and my b/f and I are still together. It saddened me that we lost her through not being able to talk things through.
2006-07-30 18:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm jealous where my mums concerned, rest ain't worth getting jealous bout...
2006-08-01 14:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Waterfalls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous of what?
2006-07-30 18:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by KEANE FAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not jealous at all.. the way i see it if you are with a man and some other woman can take him , he wasent really wonting to be with you from the start.
2006-07-31 00:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by purple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh! where do i start my gf works at checks cashed store and she sees a lot of guys in there it just drives me crazy when i'm going into the store and she's talking and laughing with another guy!!!!!!!!! why am i so jealous? i can't control myself i need help!!
2006-07-30 18:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by kingluffy84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I am not a jealous person.
I may be stingy, but not jealous.
2006-07-30 18:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all sorry. I could care less if my wife has a male friend or not. I have total trust in her.
2006-07-30 19:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not jealous, sorry!
2006-07-30 18:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by act3456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋