if you were only 15 and you found you that your pregnant?

Question

and you know that your parents gona kick you u out of the house and you dont want to live with the baby daddy and thats ur choice would you have the baby or not and would u do anything for ur baby even though its hard

im not saying that i am the girl that has this problem im just asking for an opinion ok

Answer 1

Take your responsibility and be an adult as you thought to be.
Th

Answer 2

First of all, I gotta do the older "parental" thing and say if you're not responsible enough to accept the consequences of your actions, you shouldn't be DOING those things to begin with.
Now, that I've said THAT, please consider adoption. (I am pro-choice but in your case there's really no reason for an abortion) There's a great alternative. You can call any usually religious based adoption agency and they have programs where they will allow single, unwed mothers to live at these "maternity ranches" is what I call them, and you can remain kind of anonymous and live there and have housing, medical expenses and things paid for by the prospective adoptive family, and then when the baby is born, you can give it up for adoption. It's a much better alternative to some other things you may be thinking. This way you're going through your pregnancy in a safe environment, low stress, and healthy for you and the baby.
I DO suggest however, telling your parents. I hope they don't, but if they DO kick you out, this is a great solution for you. Also, some of the adoption agencies have "open" adoptions where you can choose the person you give your baby to, and be allowed to remain in contact with your baby.

Answer 3

I know it's hard, but you need to do what you feel. Think about all your options and the consequences. 15 is very young to have a baby. Are you ready to give up your social life and care for a child? You may be suprised how your parents react. I thought my parents would do the same thing, but even though they were a little disappointed (single mom) they got over it and love him so much. Adoption is a good thing, but you'll have to go through the pregnancy and you're probably in school.

Do Not listen to these other people telling you, you will go to hell. People make mistakes. If you have an abortion, it's okay. It's your choice. The baby isn't a fetus until further along. Good luck!

Answer 4

If you thought you were responsible enough to have sex at that age, then you had better be responsible enough to except the consequences of that decision. How do you know your parents are going to kick you out? Are you sure? Which parent is the most accepting? I would sit down seriously with that parent first and tell them the truth. Have you decided you will keep the child or give it up for adoption? Don't ask me about abortion, I don't believe in it. But that is an option for you, if you and your parents decide. Don't run from this, confront it. Otherwise, the choices you make today will influence the rest of your life. Take responsiblity. This is a life you helped create, please consider that. The Lord gave you a gift, a sign that He is wanting you to wake up, and start paying attention.
Talk with your parents, and granted they are going to be mad and angry and hurt that their trust in you was broken. More than likely they will bluster and rage and yell at first. I hope eventually they understand that the child you carry is their grandchild and if if they do decide to 'throw you out', they are giving up a chance to see their grandchild. If you do find yourself out of a place to live, there are different agencies that can help. Check with the DHS in your area, they should give you a listing of places for unwed mothers. Be strong, don't quit going to school. This is a hard patch the Lord has sent you down, and He would not put a trial upon you He wouldn't think you could overcome. Be strong, have courage, keep the Faith. Hope all turns out well.

Love,
Shadows

Answer 5

I would have an abortion and start using birth control and condoms so I wouldn't be in the same situation again. Talk to the father of your child and see what he wants and go from there.

If you have an abortion you probably will have to get your parents permission so just get it over and tell them while you can still do something. If you are against abortion have the child and give it up for adoption. Abortion is a legal option, regardless of what antiabortionist may tell you like its murder and your going straight to hell.

Most 15 year old girls do not have the emotional or financial resources to raise a child by themselves.. If you keep the child make sure you put the father's name on your child's birth certificate so he can help pay for its upkeep.If he denies paternity make him get a DNA test.
The state can force him to pay child support by garnishing his wages or even send him to jail.

Answer 6

i had my son when i was 15 so i know what your going through. I always thought my parents would kick me out but to my surprise they didn't and actually took in his father. You might be surprised but if they do there are places you can go. There's shelters emergency housing you name it. The choice is yours but no matter how old you are when you have a baby it's always hard. I have 2 kids now and pregnant with the third it stays hard but it is worth it. I kept my kids and now my son is a hyper 4 yr old and my daughter is one with a huge attitude lol. but it's all worth it I suggest you do some research on places and resources available to you where you live. Feel free to email me. [e-mail] you can do it cause ive raised my kids by myself since their father is an ***. dont listen to the ppl who say you cant cause you can it takes alot of time and money but u can do it by yourself if you have too the only thing my parents helped me with is a place to stay and i paid rent when i got my job the father did nothing but party and do the deed to make them its taken me this long to get anything out of him i did it all myself and my kids will love me for it they already do cause theyre sperm donor as i call him isnt good for them im glad hes gone and its just us and now a husband a real man we now know how real men treat there kids and even ones that arent i still support my kids no matter what u can do it but its your choice

Answer 7

I would keep the baby, or at least have it and give it up for adoption. Just because your parents have threatened to kick you out, now that you ARE pregnant, their tune may change. I know we preach the same thing to my daughter, but if she came to us one day and said she was pregnant, we would do everything in our power to support her, after all, she is our baby.

Answer 8

If the pregnant girl doesn't have support from her parents and she isn't interested in marrying the father of the child. I would say adoption would be the best choice for her and her unborn child.

Answer 9

well if you didnt want a baby you should have used protection why you dont tell your parents and see what they say instead of assuming your their daughter and this is time you need them the most. if i had a kid at fifteen i would had it and yes i would have tooken care of my responsiblity. it will be hard but you can do it. well if not have it and give t up for adoption dont believe in abortion

Answer 10

I would have the baby and give it up for adoption or you could sell it. (I know that sounds bad, but there are legal ways to do this.) If you have an abortion you will be commiting murder. This is a ticket straight to hell - DONT FORGET!

Answer 11

Since I would have had to get a job and find a way to sustainably support myself, I would have had the baby and then given it for adoption.