i broke up with my boyfriend 2 years ago and i still really like him (yes i know amazing as its been two years!!) he found another girl though but is now on a break. he has also said werid things between now and the time we broke up. he asked me never to forget him, he said i was his first love and that will never change, and i was his biggest crush, he said it took him ages to get over me ect ect. him and his gf have been together 4 around 1 yr and a half, i heard from a friends he doesnt really know if he wants to get back together with her, i really dont know what to do, things have never been the same with any other guy! HELP tell me what to do please!
2006-07-30 11:04:00 · 17 answers · asked by Lizzie J 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
If he is genuinely on a break from her, then you should call him and start talking. Don't try to start a relationship, just become friends again and take it from there. You may find that both of you have changed enough that you can make it work this time, or you might find out that you're now incompatible completely.
2006-07-30 11:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Julia L. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone.....I'm sure he will never forget you...especially if you were his first love, but take it from someone who "has been there...done that"....it will never be the same. Move on girlfriend.....I a m soon to be 50 years old and have had that experience several times..... it never works out....only to cause more pain and heartache.....Make a new life for yourself....you really shouldn't have to work that hard at a loving relationship.....it should come naturally. If he has been with someone else and if you do get back together, he will compare you to that person, may it be good or bad. It just won't work! Especially, if he is indecisive about getting back together. Make the decision for him and JUST MOVE ON!
You say that it has never been the same with the other guy....do you want it to be the same.....Of Course Not! Find someone new to make new memories to share and enjoy what he has to offer you and the relationship. Obviously the first guy was not meant to be......or there would be no doubt in his mind and he would not have to think about "rekindling the relationship.
Not trying to preach....just wanting you to realize that there are alot of wonderful people out there that would probably love to find someone like you to share their love with. God is probably testing you ....... look for someone that you can share a "healthy" relationship with....with no baggage!
2006-07-30 11:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Bluewillow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this saying, don't know exactly the wording but if you let it go and it doesn't come back, it was never yours to begin with. Its hard to forget, I know how that feels. Still had feelings for a guy I was with 5 years ago, lol! I've moved on, but still think about the guy. But I wouldnt want to be second to anyone. If it doesnt work out with the other girl I wouldnt want to know that I was a second choice.
2006-07-30 11:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can tell you that you never forget your first love. He surely still has some feelings for you, but that doesn't mean he can't have feelings for someone else. If you really think that a relationship with him is what you want you might want to go ahead and make the first move. He's probably too nervous to do it himself since he believes you've moved on.
2006-07-30 11:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by uberforgetful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys always say that when u r the 1st love they trully loved and he might still love you but if hes been gone for so long i hope you have been out dating too if he is that means hes looking around making sure their aint nothign better. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. so what i say is date, if he come back gerat till then move on. he will alway love you and u might too but maybe ur not meant to be together!!! so sorry gurly but move on u cant love in the past or what if. thats no life trust me when through the same thoing. if he comes back then it was meant to be if not then sorrrrrryyyyyy
wish you the BEST
2006-07-30 11:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by BLISS IS MY HAPPYNESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be open to the possibility that he really does still like you. if you end up getting together again, i would consider that you ask him if he really does like you. try to have him tell you what he really thinks of you. make sure you're a little more subtle and it's a comfortable situation. Make sure he's not trying to get back at her or get in your pants or whatever by finding his true feelings.
make sure you have an idea of his feelings before you get back together. if he broke it off then be cautious, if you broke it off then there is little to worry about.
Good luck
2006-07-30 11:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Michael J with wings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he has been telling you that you were his biggest crush then that means you are someone special in his heart unless you two broke up for a bad reason then that may change alot but if he knows how you feel about him then you two might be together now
2006-07-30 11:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by T. L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get over him. he has and it's for the best. he'll find a girl and they'll live happily ever after. you'll find a guy who is better then he was and then you'll wish you had forgotten all about him. you'll never forget him tho. he was your "biggest crush" and you shouldn't forget him. he'll never forget you 'cause you were he's first love but, he'll find someone else that he love better then you. I mean you had to break up for a reason.
2006-07-30 11:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start hanging out with him again cause if there is chemistry between you still it well be obvious so just start hanging out with him and let him know that you still care about him (hint that you like him dont just tell him) and see where that takes you!
2006-07-30 11:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 12:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋