I have a girlfriend who has a bf, 2 other guy friends a bit younger then me, and another couple who is married. Everyone is very close and hang out together alot. Well it seems that none of them ever call me to do anything or to hang out. My girlfriend who is supposed to be my best friend only calls me when she wants something or has a problem she wants to dump on me, never to do anything. We are all very much alike and like doing the same things, so why am I always the one left out?
2006-07-30 10:40:54 · 12 answers · asked by silvershell37 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's time to hang with a different crowd.
2006-07-30 10:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by M L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't call her your gf. you may be left out because you are different. you may be smarter, maybe a little bit more serious than them, maybe you like serious conversations and themes. they could be too superficial for you. people could also think that you wouldn't like to go with them even if they suggest you to come. I know that from my experience. once one guy asked me: what's the difference between a simple friend and a bf? My answer was: a friend is ONLY a SIMPLE FRIEND, a bf is the BEST FRIEND and a BOYFRIEND at the same time.
2006-07-30 17:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times , we let others take advange of us. Because we don't have any thing else to do. You are going to have to start finding other things to do. Don't make your self available all the time. Give them time to miss you. Then if they are real friends they will come around and call etc. Good Luck Pem
2006-07-30 17:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuz They Are Stupid And Want To Push You Away And Not Fit In With Them N E More
2006-07-31 23:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by Punk Rock Princess 89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is too selfish to really have a friend at all. I have a sister like that! She wants to gab for hours about her drama but it never even occurs to her to ask whats up with me. Its just who she is so I really don't have much to do with her anymore. I think you just need some different friends, these people are fake and selfish.
2006-07-30 17:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like that are just being selfish. They expect you to tag along which is why they don't arrange things and include you. The fact your friend confides in you concerning problems shows she feels close to you. Maybe bring up your concerns with her and see her point of view.
2006-07-30 17:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will spell it out. They are acquaintances NOT friends. Make new friends. It's okay. People grow and change and more apart. You are a big girl; you can take it. Don't say anything to them about it. Just move on.
2006-07-30 17:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever considered talking to them? call a meeting and talk about it, maybe they are just pretending to be ur friend not to be mean and u should start making urself be involved in things...they are just using u and they arent ur real friends
2006-07-30 17:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on making new friends.
2006-07-30 17:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sorry to break it to you but they dont really like you. you are being used!
2006-07-30 17:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by arielcowgirl_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋