We've been having unprotected sex since december when she lost her virginity to me, but she doesnt get pregnant and her cycles are always on time! and i know we both want 2 have a baby! and have had sex while she is ovulating! some help please on what to do or try!
2006-07-30 10:00:08 · 12 answers · asked by El Diablito 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
A baby needs a MARRIED mom and dad to love him, support him and meet all his needs. Married people are in a legal, committed relationship that provides stability to children. That means that there will be money to provide for food and clothing and education. And that means there will be two people who have agreed to be in it for the long haul.
You and your girlfriend have no idea what having and raising a child entails and I think it is very SELFISH of you to be having sex knowing you could get pregnant and bring a poor innocent baby into this unstable situation.
Please stop having sex outside of marriage NOW. Grow up, become a financially stable and responsible man and then find a good, mature woman to marry. Only then will you be ready for children.
These are harsh words, but you need a big wake up call. Americans are tired of dealing with the problem of irresponsible people like you having sex and thinking nothing of the consequences.
It's ALWAYS the children that ultimately suffer. But of course, you're not mature enough to be thinking about that because you're just enjoying the free sex.
2006-07-30 10:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Veritas 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you SURE you're having sex when she's ovulating? Just asking because it's widely assumed that women ovulate on day 14. This isn't necessarily the case, even if a woman has "normal" 28-day cycles. Women typically get their period 12-16 days after ovulation, so she could technically ovulate around day 16, even if her cycles are 28 days long. If her cycles are longer than 28 days then she is almost definitely ovulating later than day 14. Don't just assume she's ovulating on day 14 because that's when the majority of people think that's when women ovulate.
Does she get any fertile cervical fluid during her cycle, meaning egg-white looking or even milky/creamy/lotiony? If so, this is when she's most fertile.
If you're SURE you're having sex when she's ovulating and she's still not getting pregnant, it'd be a good idea to get checked out (both of you!). A lot of drs. want couples to try for a year first, so you might have another few months to go until a dr. will see you, but it wouldn't hurt for your gf to express her concerns to her dr. and see what he/she says and then go from there.
2006-07-30 10:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by tn80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It you are lifeless set on having a little one then you have to follow specific steps. What i'm about to let you know is for an natural girl so would not be correct on your lady friend. An natural woman's interval is 28 to 35 days on which a woman ovulated 14-16 days into the cycle. To get pregnant, you have got to have intercourse on the times she is most fertile. Don't have intercourse daily just each other day per week before she ovulates as sperm can reside in a girl's body for between 5-7 days. Hope that helps. It will take a whilst to get pregnant and if via two years you haven't gotten pregnant, go see a doctor. Excellent good fortune and plenty of baby dirt. Xxx
2016-08-09 05:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by faim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It you're ineffective set on having somewhat one then you fairly ought to stay with particular steps. What i'm approximately to enable you be responsive to is for an common female so will possibly no longer be top on your lady chum. an common female's era is 28 to 35 days on which a woman ovulated 14-sixteen days into the cycle. To get pregnant, you need to have intercourse on the days she is maximum fertile. don't have intercourse universal basically the different day a week before she ovulates as sperm can stay in a woman's physique for between 5-7 days. wish that facilitates. it ought to take a on an identical time as to get pregnant and if via 2 years you have no longer gotten pregnant, pass see a physician. good luck and many infant airborne dirt and mud. Xxx
2016-11-03 08:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by aguas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what I know, the best time to get pregnant is about 12-14 days after her cycle.(you have to count from the first day that the period starts to about 12 to 13 days later).
Or there could be an issue with one of you, one of you could possibly be infertile. You may need to see a fertility doctor about the problem.
2006-07-30 10:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely she is on the pill, (hopefully). She might just have a few more brains than 90% of the single/dating women here, and is deciding to not have a child until the father makes a commitment and places a ring on her finger. I'm sure hoping she has the good sense the Lord gave her and is holding out for a guy who will marry her, so that she will not give birth to a bastard child.
2006-07-30 10:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old are u 2? (plz tell me ur outta high school.) well, maybe if u want this so badly u should invest in an ovulation monitor. they r expensive but maybe u could get 1 off ebay. u need 2 know on what days u are fertile. maybe its Not Her, maybe its u. and they have test 4 guys now 2 at ur drug stores.
2006-07-31 02:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait.... your g/f??? thats it? not wife?? Dude I aint gonna pay more effing taxes and sh1t so you can get money for that baby. even if your rich, get married first dude....
do u even know how many ppl out there are prego and cant afford it... let alone arn't married??!!
ps. why would u wanna bring an innocent child into this crazy world right now???
2006-07-30 10:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs a ring around her finger and a loving and devoted husband.
2006-07-30 10:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by Bamos 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hopefully it is because she is taking birth control pills.
2006-07-30 15:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mustang Gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋