How did you feel in the beginning of your pregnancy?

Question

I know i've asked similar questions already but here i go again. I know no one on here is a professional and can only offer their opinion, but Im welcoming all. Okay here we go.. My b/f came in me on the 14th and 15th. I was supposed to ovulate the following week on either the 19th or 20th. My b/f came in me again on the 20th. I wanna be pregnant and so does he. Last week I was having some lower back pains and cramping pains, which are normal for me to have the week b4 my period. My next period is do Aug 1. I have been feeling tired lately, and a bit queasy after I finish eating, and I have been having frequent bm. My breast dont feel tender but they do look a lil more fuller than usual. I have pressure in my lower abdomen which makes me want to do a pushing motion. So on a scale from 1-10......do you all think im pregnant? OR is my period just about to start? I have an appointment wid planned parenting tomorrow to take a test. I would really like it if expecting mother would answer.

I am old enough Im 19 and i am in college, as a matter of fact im in my second year

IM PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 1/2 WEEKS!!!

Answer 1

Well, for the first 3 months or so, I was always tired, I didnt have any morning sickness the whole time that I was pregnant, but fatigue is one of the most common signs, along with bloating and maybe breast soreness.

Answer 2

Wow...yeah you need to really think hard about what those other two women wrote.

You're not "old enough" for a baby just because you're a certain age. A baby needs a MARRIED mom and dad to love him, support him and meet all his needs. Married people are in a legal, committed relationship that provides stability to children. That means that there will be money to provide for food and clothing and education. And that means there will be two people who have agreed to be in it for the long haul.

You and your boyfriend have no idea what having and raising a child entails and I think it is very SELFISH of you to be having sex knowing you could get pregnant and bring a poor innocent baby into this unstable situation.

Please stop having sex outside of marriage NOW. Grow up, focus on your education and be a mother AFTER you find a good, mature man to marry you.

If you are pregnant, please consider adoption because there are millions of loving, stable parents looking for babies. Please do not keep this baby and expect everyone (including the government and my tax money) to help you along.

These are harsh words, but you need a big wake up call. Americans are tired of dealing with the problem of irresponsible teenagers like you having sex and thinking nothing of the consequences.

Answer 3

You love to copy and paste I see.

You are 19 and in college and want a baby. You need to go back and recheck your priorities. It would be the smartest thing to do is complete college, get a good job with some health insurance, and you and your boyfriend need to get married because if you get pregnant before getting married there is a great chance of him walking out on you...just because he says he wants a baby does not mean a thing. If he has any care for you he would marry you first then have children. Right now you are in college...finish school, get a good job, get married then worry about a baby. From reading your question you do not have a clue and your spelling is all out of whack and you are in college...my goodness.

But it is your life and if you jack it up because you do not listen to those who know better then do not come on here whining about it later because you have been told that the road you are trying to go down is not even worth it. You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you to be thinking about a baby.

Answer 4

Let me be real with you! I can tell you are not very old and for the fact you say BF and say that he came inside me. You are NOT READY for a baby!!!

I am a teen mother! Well not a teen anymore. But yeah my BF wanted a baby too. We thought we were so in love and going to get married and what not! So it happend I got pregnant! Things were great until the baby came. When we realized our life is gone. Your life is spent every min for that baby! You wake up in th night for the baby. Sometimes the baby does not go back to sleep for hours!!! Do you know how much it will cost you to feed your child? Or have daycare for them. Yes you might get government help. But that is still not enough you have to buy clothes. They get sick. So here I was at 18 all my friends went off to college and went to Florida and all this fun stuff and so did my babies daddy! Who do you think was left to stay with the baby? It wont be him! And yes he is all in for it know. No matter what you think and how much you think he is in love with you. He wont stay! You will be a lone raising your child! So if I were you I would go and talk to a counsler and get some self esteem back in your life! I know I lacked it when I got pregnant. Realize you are young and not married. Go to college find a good college man. If you have the baby now you will never get out of poverty! It is not a fun life to live!!! Also your child will be happier in the long run if you wait.

My son is 7 now and always sad because dad only shows when he wants too. it is hard watching him cry for hs dad and looking out the window when he was 3 thinking dad was showing up and never came! you dont want to go throught this and either does that child. I am being honest with you. If you get your period this month take that as a blessing and have fun now and live you life!

Answer 5

Paxico trader.. did you read the question? it asked how you felt in the beginning of the pregnancy not "do you think i should have a baby"... Paxico.. in one post you're berating unmarried people about having kids and in the next post you're talkin about how you would never ask anybody to use a condom.. I see you plan to die from AIDS... really now.. try not to be so damn judgemental for a change.. it just might help..