what should i do
2006-07-30 08:55:08 · 8 answers · asked by STEALTH NINJA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have a trust issue about women loving me cuz i got my heart broken so many times i dunno who to trust what do i do
2006-07-30 08:56:28 · update #1
i was bron with leukemia since i was a baby but now its remission i never trusted a woman snice my school years
2006-07-30 09:15:13 · update #2
Trust your friends.Trust your family. Trust those who have always been there for you when you were in times of need. Trust those who may have turned their back on your once or twice because sometimes these people will tell you things about yourself that even you didn't know. Trust yourself. Trust the people YOU care about. If you're seeing a girl, trust her. I know that dealing with so many heartbreaks is hard. Believe me, I've been there. But unless you learn to have faith in the people you allow to be in your life, then you will have let all those heartbreaks cause you more heartache. And doing that is SOOO not worth all the pain. You should talk to some of your friends that understand what you've been through so that you can learn to Let Go of these past hurts. Life should be about letting go of the bad, and learning to accept new things as they come. Sometimes in love and like there is heartbreak. Sometimes we all hurt. But then again, sometimes there's that one person that's waiting just for you..and that person isn't gonna break your heart. Hang in there!!!!
2006-07-30 09:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are misunderstanding what trust is all about, as so many people do. Trust is NOT about someone else, trust is about you and trusting yourself to be able to handle whatever comes up. You can't ever control anyone elses actions, not for a minute and certainly not for a lifetime, the only control you have is over you and what you do about it. People don't come with pink slips and are always free to make their own choices, even if they are married, which makes it 'wrong' but they can still do it.
So what you really need to do is make sure you are investing yourself in the right people. The best way to do that is to take it slow and be observant. Anyone can talk a good game but as they say talk is cheap. Actions are everything, when you see someone that says one thing but does another you know something isn't right. Also remember that everybody defines 'love' differently, when you say you love someone their expectations are based on their idea of what that means, which may or may not match yours and vice versa. Make sure you are clear about what your definition is and the FIRST time you experience something with someone that doesn't match that consider whether to continue right then and there. Many people get lost in trying to make the person in front of them fit the IDEA they have in their minds, that will get you everytime.
2006-07-30 16:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to trust again in order to love again. We all have our heart broken from time to time. You have to be careful and choose more wisely. Learn the signs and follow your gut instinct. Your gut will never lie
2006-07-30 16:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way, if you don't trust you will never find that special someone. You can't take out your problems on people who haven't hurt you. Trust until someone gives you a reason not to.
2006-07-30 15:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it takes a long time to get over a broken heart but you learn to do it. and it get easier with time
2006-07-30 15:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time to heal
dont rush in where angels fear to tread
good luck
2006-07-30 15:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem i cant let anyone get to close till i met rosemary.
2006-07-30 16:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'll trust again.......... you'll find a woman that will be worth taking the chance with........
2006-07-30 15:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by Coodles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋