please am a guy that cannot approach a girl for a relationship.i cant use the right words i need to know.............. how do i turn you ladies on and guys out there how do i get the girls to love me ? i need real answers
2006-07-30 08:46:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can start by changing your name from..sex starved! Get your head out of your butt. Love comes before sex. You are thinking backwards. Sex is the bonus in a relationship.Just try being a good,caring,compassionate,person first.Maybe you thinking about,SEX all the time,is the reason women shy away from you. Give people a chance to know you before you jump in bed with them.
2006-07-30 08:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls arent convinced by the "right words" so dont focus on that. Focus on just being yourself. Yeah yeah, easier said then done.. but confidence is one of the sexiest qualities. First build up your self esteem, look at the good qualities you have to offer to any girl. I'm sure you'll find many. Don't be shy, put yourself out there a little more and make an effort to approach a girl, what do you have to lose? you just need to find someone who you can relate to and someone you click with, it doesnt happen that easily so you'll have to keep trying. I wish you the best of luck, and remember "nothing ventured, nothing gained"
2006-07-30 08:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your screen name is a turn off and spelled wrong as well. Instead of being obsessed with your own desire for sex try being interested in a woman and getting to know her. In order to lower your anxiety level start with a woman you know you are not attracted to, like an old lady or a nun. Ask her about the book she's reading, the pictures on her desk or her car. When she tells you something, ask her something else. Then tell her something about you. Try to find things you have in common even if it's something lame like you both like cars that get good mileage. Then see if you can find out what movies she likes, where she likes to go on vacation, what her hobbies are etc. This is called conversation. It's way more attractive to a woman than being the target of a sexual predator. Try it. Once you have learned to see a woman as something other than a potential victim trying initiating conversation with someone you do find attractive.
2006-07-30 09:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lleh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop. breathe in. breathe out. now-calmly listen...if you are shy, its all ok b/c the right girl will be attracted to your personality even if its not the "in-your-face-egomaniac" type (which is good)
you DONT need to worry about how to "turn the ladies on" or how to "make" anyone love you-keep trying that and get ready for a lifetime of cheep dates and lonely endings. you need to start to GET TO KNOW a girl as her friend and then see where it goes, life is no race and you dont need to spend your time scaring the good ones off b/c you cant hold your horses-catch my drift?
2006-07-30 08:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by mello83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, and if thats not working....
why focus so with so much effort on getting a girl! Honestly, if you spent more time following your own goals and asperations in life, you WILL run into a woman who will appreciate a hard working, focused guy!
We dont want men who do nothing but chase girls. We want the ones who dont care cause they are focused on their own ambitions. So try that. Dont try at all! I guarentee at least ONE girl will notice and start chasing you.....
2006-07-30 08:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no secret or mystery to approaching women. Just be yourself, most women can see right through fake.
2006-07-30 08:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is be confident in yourself and just treat girls with respect. Compliment her, talk about things she is interested in, and make her laugh. I love it when guys make me laugh.
2006-07-30 08:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a big fan of toughies, stand up for me when there's sh1t going down and you'll win my heart!
2006-07-30 08:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliment her on her clothes. Ask her about her pets. Compliment her on her hair. Buy her a Porsche.
2006-07-30 08:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being such a pathetic geek!! That'll be a good start!
2006-07-30 08:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jimmy Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋