I've been with my husband for over 12 yrs. (married 11+) Now that he's filed for divorce, the house has been sold, and I'm living on my own...I just want to move on.
2006-07-30 07:10:00 · 8 answers · asked by craftygirl001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, I didn't expect to receive so many answers so quickly. To the person who suggested I get a job...I have 2. I'm also trying to unpack my things and settle into my new apartment. It's tough because everything I own is something we bought together or reminds me of him.
He was my best friend and sometime I just feel really lost without him. He's still the first thing I think about in the morning, and the last thing I think about at night.
I considered myself happily married right up until he suddenly decided he wanted out. I wish he'd had the courage to talk to me about what was going on and I wish I'd handle things differently. There has been so much miscommunication. I feel like a failure because I didn't see what was happening, I feel like a fool for ever trusting him, and I'm hurt and angry.
Those of you who said it will take time are probably right. I'm just struggling with getting through each day.
2006-07-30 07:37:55 · update #1
dont try to find them
2006-07-30 07:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a little time to greive your loss... then just move on, try something new, something you only dreamed of...
The more new things you surround yourself with, the easier it will be to move on... As Puumbah said in "The Lion King", You gotta put the past behind ya... But don't forget to learn from it.
2006-07-30 07:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by boj12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, treat yourself to a day at the spa, get new hair style maybe even dye your hair. then do massive self pampering you've been through a lot and need a little you time. it will take some time but you'll heal. one day at a time. Get together with your friends don't dwell on the past even though it'll be difficult
good luck
2006-07-30 07:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by christina s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each new day is a gift. Live for the moment and plan for the future and forget the past that is not worth remembering.
2006-07-30 07:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be find just take one day at a time,eventually you will get over him try to be around your families for moral support at this time of your life you need people who love and care for you they will help you move with your life.it's not easy but you can do it some of us have been througt it and we move on so can you.
2006-07-30 07:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing a few good deeds for other
people.
This is life. Sometimes we have to sing
the blues.
2006-07-30 07:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Trimmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a job and learn to that you are strong to be on your own. Get a job and keep yourself busy. y
2006-07-30 07:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time can wash pain away, soon you will be fine!
2006-07-30 07:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋