she always tells me wut 2 do like i have this ex boyfriend is name is andrew and we call him and she says this whan we are on the phone with him and she saids that i need to shutup and she always tells me that i do not know anything and i need to learn something and im tiered of it wut shood i do (im in the 7th grade) and i know her since 1 grade
2006-07-30 07:04:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her exactly how you feel. No matter how much it may hurt her. Don't let anyone controll you like that, you don't deserve it and no one does. If she just continues after you confront her then just forget her, she wasn't and more than likely won't be a better friend.
2006-07-30 07:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Serena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey that is not a friend! But if you wish to try and have her as one just tell her you dont like the way she is always putting you down. Ask her to stop, if not then dont have anything to do with her. No one needs to be put down or controlled by a friend, not ever in your life. Be your own person.
2006-07-30 07:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by doicu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she's hurting your feelings by saying all those things. You guys have been friends for a long time; I'm sure this can be fixed with a little more communication.
2006-07-30 07:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she needs to make herself look better by putting you down. Lay down the law to her and tell her that either she treats you better or the friendship ends. I mean, is it really a friendship if someone is always making you feel bad and embarrassing you in front of others?
Really, I have enough enemies, who needs friends like that?
2006-07-30 07:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Allison L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur at an age where friends grow apart. find a friend that wont treat you bad. or course do all this only after you have a heart to heart with her. then decide if she's really that important to you that u have to put up with her meanness. if u can put up woth it, then u deserve what u get.
2006-07-30 07:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by dna_lih 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her to F off and get some new friends..
People who boss you around and make you feel worthless are not friends.
2006-07-30 07:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by boysxlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't tell others what to do. Should stand up strong and tell her how you fell about her treating you so badly. What sounds like that she is no friend if she is gonna be like to you.
Friends: respect, sharing, caring, royal, and nice.
2006-07-30 07:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is pointing out some negative points in you then you should analyse whether is she correct? See whether you are bad at communication. If no then try to talk to your friend and tell her that it hurts you when she is pointing you out in such way.
2006-07-30 07:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has a serious problem. This friend is jealous that you are having a boy friend. you should keep a distance from this girlfriend of yours.
2006-07-30 07:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isn't your true friend, i don't care how long you have known each other. don't answer when she calls, don't call her and when you are at school try to avoid her. She enjoys your pain and that is not a friend
2006-07-30 07:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋