i hae two children of 2&9 months resp. and now i dont een feel like to touch wid my hubby
2006-07-30 06:42:42 · 10 answers · asked by pooja 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
time for somebody else
2006-07-30 06:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So okay, the obvious smart remark is about children 7 months apart ! Lets assume its a typo. But consider that having babies so close together is a physical and emotional strain that you do not want to deal with again so soon. That would be a legitimate and common reason to lose interest in sex. No sex, no pregnancy. The addition of babies also shifts your focus from wife to mother. All understandable. Here's the issue. You must feel this is not correct or you would not be asking here. Try two things. Make time each day for you and your husband. Put the kids to bed and be a couple. It helps . Secondly, get some birth control. Condoms, the pill, something. If having sex does not mean another child your interest might return. If this stuff does not work check for a medical reason with an M.D.
2006-07-30 14:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that your husband does not arouse you sufficiently. Why dont you speak to him about your feeling. A romantic evening out, change of place, a vacation, or even going to the movies together can bring back your interest towards intimacy. If you show disinterest when you are so young (i presume) he may be unhappy with you and may even be diverted elsewhere. You cannot blame him then. So the best way for you is to discuss the matter with him and be bold and experiment a little in bed. Also it is possible that you have two small children and get tired of taking care of them the whole day. Get some help and find some time for yourself. Go to a beauty parlour, do some exercises, shape up and dress up to look good. If you feel good about yourself, you will surely crave for your husband's attention... then one thing will lead to another and so on... Good luck.
2006-07-30 14:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you're a mommy now and that takes up most of your time..you don't really feel like having sex. But you can get back in the swing of things..every once in a while you can dress up sexy for your hubby and maybe passion will spark. Or you could talk to a professional to get your sex drive up again.
2006-07-30 13:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by prettyfreek15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't go for every1...i have a 70 year old uncle and he's still crazy bout knockin the boots...not just this one i've seen so many of em...maybe U need sum help
goodluck
2006-07-30 13:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by l0_o_some1else_o_0l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get you and your hubby a motel room, some sexy lingerie, some sex toys and try to get in the mood!
2006-07-30 13:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Pooh
IM me
He needs it
Touch
Feel excited
Shape ur body
Work out
Tell him to work out too
2006-07-30 13:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by snow l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you need to spice up your life...romance especially...
take time and discuss...
might find interesting things you can do together...
good luck :)
2006-07-30 13:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by ashchicka2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-30 14:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal, see a doc they can help
2006-07-30 13:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋