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the relationship is over but we have a child together so he'll always be around. :(

2006-07-30 06:42:33 · 12 answers · asked by prettylady 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

12 answers

you say 'forget someone you love' but the relationship is over? you guys both feel that its over, thats already been decided? if thats the case, the best thing to do is move on. its hard to say it any other way than that. since you guys have a kid, hes always gonna be in your life in one way or the other so youll have to learn to accept that. you need to move on and meet someone else. im sure hell do the same thing. its hard and it could take a month, 2 months or longer before your comfortable to date again but trust me, i know...the only way youll get over this is by getting back out there. by telling yourself theres someone true out there, someone who can make you happy. when you find that person, everything else will follow. and hopefully you guys can keep it civil for your kiddo. my parents are still really good friends. they divorced when i was 9 and still are friendly with one another. just stay positive. itll work out for you ;)

2006-07-30 06:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by af4sguy 3 · 1 0

Ive been in a similar situation like that before.....moving away or just running from your feelings makes life much harder to bare. You will always feel for him because he is the father for your child. If you guys could work things out, then talk it through....but if you can't then you need to make new goals in life for you and your kid. Men come and go, and sometimes even the ones you love are not in your life for a reason

2006-07-30 07:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Wow, tough, easier said then done. I guess the best way is to find support through friends and family. Find another person to have a relationship with. I don't think you ever forget a person unless they're beyond any help or so incredibly disrespectful to you and your feelings that the best thing to do is forget them.

2006-07-30 07:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0 0

If you love him why are you movin on? And if you love him and have a child together with him why are you movin on?

Makes very little sense. Sounds like you have something that's very hard to find. Are you married? Where is your commitment?

What's wrong with your relationship?

You should give more detail.

2006-07-30 07:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by dean_moriarty00 3 · 0 0

you dont forget, but you accept and do your best to understand why it may have happened. Try making a list of all the good qualities and another list of the bad,that may help put it in perspective. Other than that it is just going to take time,

2006-07-30 06:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by cherokee 4 · 0 0

think about the things that made the relationship fall apart that should help you with moving on, stay busy, busy busy and take care of the child, you won't have time left to remember him

2006-07-30 07:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by angel 4 · 0 0

You'll never forget them, but you will learn to deal with the loss and eventually move on.

Good Luck!

Aloha!

2006-07-30 06:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0 0

a little bit of you will always belong to that person, but over time you will move on

2006-07-30 06:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora Tommorow 4 · 0 0

look just forget about him. he doesn't know that he left someone who rlly cares 4 him. just move on maybe you will find someone who loves u trully

2006-07-30 06:47:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Move as far as possible

2006-07-30 06:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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