what can i say?
It's driving me crazy...sex with my hubby lasted only for one minute and it sucks!
2006-07-30 06:26:39 · 52 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stop sucking it
then he might last longer
next time you go to have sex light a cigarette up
when he asks what you doing
say
i want to see what lasts the longest you or a cigarette
that will make him think
2006-08-06 04:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by itsa o 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-19 23:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several things involved here.
You don't say so I am assuming you are newlyweds.
First use more foreplay, a lot more foreplay.
Second you take control by getting on top and go slow and you control the pace, you force him to last longer.
Third it may be due to his lack of experience that over excites him making him unable to last long. Solution, more experience. A lot more experience, every chance you get.
Also just because round one is over does not mean you both have to quit, give him time to rest (about 15 minutes) and then go for round two, and even round three or more. This will also increase his experience and help as mentioned above.
Hang in there with patience and experience it will get better.
2006-08-06 18:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him for the love and cuddles, shopping etc. But buy a rampant rabbit! They are better than men anyway!
By the way was he the same before marriage?
Spice things up a bit if he weren't, might have just got to routine like!
Hope this helps
2006-07-30 06:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible your husband does not have good control because he has never really understood his own body. Help him with this problem by stimulating his penis to just before the point of orgasm and then stop..... do this several times. Even if he cannot tell he is ready to orgasm, you should be able to tell by his body movements or verbal expressions. Through this type of excercise, he will be more in touch with all the sensations that lead up to orgasm, and he will soon be able to control premature ejaculation.
The following website might be helpful:
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001524.htm
Good luck.
2006-07-30 06:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by Katie My Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just how you feel.....really bloody frustrated. I had an ex with a 3" dick (erect, that is!), he used to last about five seconds and he was always asking me if it was in yet!!!! He is so dumped. Does he know he has a problem, or has he always been like this? Some men dont care if their wives enjoy it, just as long as they get their rocks off- if thats the case, dump him. Sex is wonderful, and its for everyone, not just the lucky few!!!
2006-07-30 14:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by k0005kat@btinternet.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a genuine post?????
He obviously suffers from pre-mature ejaculation - he needs to see his Dr, who may refer him to a sex therapist, he sounds bloody selfish, still you'll have to make sure he gives you plenty of foreplay that should satisy you - providing he knows what he's doing? He could always try thinking of boring things, maybe you could swop positiions? It takes a guy longer to come if you're on top? When it comes to sex, and making love, you have to leave the stiff upper lip behind.
2006-08-02 13:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mercy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-10 21:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both fool around for a while it will come back again.
Or he can masturbate a few hours before you two go at it. That will help.
I did that before I went to see my gf. At times I finished fast too. We continued to mess around with each other and "he" came around again.
BTW if he finishes that fast he must think you are freakin awesome. Because you stimulate him so much.
Work with him before you give up.
2006-07-30 06:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by elliott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring a girlfriend along and see what happenes. I think he'll last for more than a minute.
2006-07-30 06:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change position, men that are tense tend to shoot off quickly, if you two go cowgirl he shouldn't be as tense so mightlast longer, and also means you have control over depth of penetration and speed...
2006-08-05 07:50:17 · answer #11 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋