I recently started dating a guy who I love to death.And the other day ran into a guy who I dated for 6 years but because of his job he needed to move&I wasnt willing to move that far away from my family.But hes back and when I seen him It was like all those same feelings were still there!!!
2006-07-30 06:20:08 · 19 answers · asked by swtgrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no you cannot. when you love more than one, you are only giving half of yourself to both!!!
2006-07-30 06:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that it is possible to be in love with 2 or more people, but it sure isn't easy on yourself to feel that way. I was there recently and I really had a hard time telling what feeling and for whom was stronger. Having relationships with both is even harder. Time is important to tell, but sure having feelings for more than 1 person is possilbe. You know I felt the same with my boyfriend that wanted to go to work far away and come back for a week at a time, I didn't think I could live like that and now that he has done it, I am sure that we would be fine. When it is right you just make it work.
2006-07-30 06:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by sexy_cancerian_crab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's possible, but not probable. Here's why. Even though you like both of them, one of them has a little advantage over the other. You need to figure out which guy will fulfill your needs over the rest of your life. The sad thing is that most people (guys, in this case) won't want to share you with someone else. Therefore, you have a decision to make. Make it soon so you don't string along the odd guy out. You owe it to him to be honest.
Good Luck
2006-07-30 06:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... tough one. I think you might love them both differntly. And if that's the case then it is possible. The question is, which would you rather want to be with? Can you imagine yourself with someone in the long run? Who can you not imagine your life without. But I would suggest staying with the man that you are with now. Because if the first one just took off, who is to say that he won't do it again whether because of his job or not....
2006-07-30 06:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by sexystarfish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not Love...it's like, or lust. If you can look another man in the eye and feel love, then you don't "love" the first one...but, it's ok! I think you're harboring feelings for the "old" one because of him leaving. Hang with him for a good month or 2 and you'll see that it's not genuine.
2006-07-30 06:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
Impossible...You Can Play Around But Can't B In Luv
2006-07-30 06:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by l0_o_some1else_o_0l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very possible to have certain feelings about 2 guys at the same time but i don't think you can be in love with both na ah!
mliza
2006-07-30 06:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Chooker bud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Unfortunately, current norms frowns upon keep them both at the same time.
2006-07-30 06:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by cherox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly my friend is in that situation as you, only it's 2 girls. It's really tough but you need to decide who you really love though.
2006-07-30 12:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Bibi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you can truly be in love with two people at the same time.
2006-07-30 06:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe so but pick the one that is going to be by your side and support you and love you!
2006-07-30 06:23:33 · answer #11 · answered by prettyfreek15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋