I wear my ring every minute of everyday. Now I did fine with women before I was married but in the two yrs I've been married vs. the 22 I wasn't I've been approached/ invited by way more women. WTF there has to be a reason. Because I havn't changed physically since I've been married (not that I'm a bad looking guy, I'm decent looking) and I dress the same way I always have (comfortably) so what is it. Because as a rule when I was single I stayed away from married women. I just don't understand and I'm tired of hearing that's just the way it is.
2006-07-30 06:19:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its shocking.This only reveals that gender differences have little to do with fidelity morals ethics and goodness.Its the person who is responsible for his/her behaviour.Earlier it was a man.Now its women who are competing to be degraded and be cruelly unjust to their female counterparts.Its hard to justify the reasons of infidelity.
2006-07-30 07:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by aquarian 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because some women notice a man more when he's got that "glow" of being in love and totally focused on his new relationship, and they are manipulative enough to try to capitalize on and "skank" (sorry to use that word, but it's the truth) enough not to care whether you want to be them or not. A lot of men, (My fiance is bad with this one, he never sees what's right in his face when I CAN), never notice a woman's subtle overtures or maybe these women are BOLDER now that you are clearly "taken". However, Woman are not the only ones who do this, some guys will only sleep with married women because they don't want to commit. Still, with a few women, I think some are just desperate for attention, ANY they can get, and probably, although you won't believe this, SOME may have thought you were attractive ALL along and now are even more desperate to try to distract your focus, as if thinking that you will miss what you just recently had (singleness) more now, unbelievably (when obviously you were not forced and happily gave it up.)
2006-07-30 13:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a great question and one that has bothered me as well. Woman should stick together and not try to steal each other's property as it were. So I think it is somewhat a control issue or maybe a insecurity issue. They figure if they can steal you away from the woman you married they are in control OR if they can persuade you to have an affair with them then they must be so good they can get any man, even a married one. I can't stand women like that, but they are out there.
Hold your head high and go home to your wife. You sound like a great guy.
2006-07-30 13:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jill P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same question posted right now and the only answer I have gotten is "Other women want what you have" or "He must be doing something i am not seeing" No those are all wrong I thought the same thing and I started watching him like a hawk I would go to his work unexpected, I followed his eyes and he did not do anything wrong. It not only pisses me off but my husband as well. To be honest if you find the answer to Why these ho** do this and how to handle it please let me know.I think your in the same boat I am
2006-07-30 18:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by denise_lndsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women want to see if they can whoo you away from your wife. Others want confirmation that all men are "dogs" Still other find their happiness and dealing with a man thats already taken. They feel that if you are already married, they don't have to worry about all the motions of dating and what comes with it. Straight sex and thats it!! No strings, no dinner or worring about if or when he will call back. No man checking up on you.. Good luck..
2006-07-30 13:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about getting what you can't have. Some woman are very jealous that another woman has a committed relationship. Something they don't have they want to prove that its fake, that this guy will take the chance to cheat if given it. Just keep loving your wife and don't worry about this. Men do it ,women do it these people are pathetic.
2006-07-30 13:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THESE WOMEN HAVE NO SENSE OF SELF,NO RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES OR ANYONE ELSE.IT DOES NOT MAKE SENSE WHY THEY WOULD NOT JUST STICK TO THE SINGLE GUYS.HOW WOULD THEY LIKE IT IF SOMEONE HIT ON THEIR HUSBANDS.WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND..THEY ARE WHAT YOU CALL GOOD FOR NOTHING! LADIES, THERE IS A REASON WHY MEN WEAR WEDDING BANDS EVEN FOR THE GUYS THAT DONT,IFTHEY TELL YOU THEY HAVE A LADY LEAVE THEM ALONE THERE IS PLENTY OF OTHER FISH IN THE SEA .ITS TIME TO GROW UP AND TO RESPECT YOURSELF!
2006-07-30 13:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some womens live to be hurt it dosent make sense to want something you cant have but its happening if you really love your better half just be truthful and straight to the point you are a happly married man and you dont indulge in adultry
2006-07-30 13:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a 'reason' and it's found in psychological studies. generally a married person is safer to be with since the chasing person is probably afraid (fear of commitments)to get involved with someone who is single and available.
2006-07-30 14:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because these females are home wrecking whores, anymore questions, have a great day
2006-07-30 13:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋