How old and what grade were in u in when u got ur first boyfriend. I'm nervous cuz i'm going to middle school, and i don't want to be the only one without a boyfriend.
2006-07-30 06:18:34 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
17 this year..but it was worth the wait ;)
Take care.
2006-07-30 06:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a guy but hopefully you dont mind me answering this question. I was in 7th grade when I got my first real girlfriend(that means the first one that I actually went on a date with), I forget how old I was. You really shouldnt be nervous because in middle school and high school no one really cares if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend or not, and of course you will get a boyfriend sooner or later, everyone does. Really you should just make sure that you have about as many friends that are boys and you do girls, that way you're not a social outcast when it comes to talking with guys, it makes it easier to meet them, talk to them, and start dating one of them eventually.
2006-07-31 15:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by johnny boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgot what grade i was in like 5th i think i'am in 7th grade now in trust me u would not be the only one with a boyfriend. If u think u are then u can do 2 things.
#1:u can find a boyfriend 4 some of your friends by asking your boyfriends dose he have any friends that she can go out with.
#2 or u can just think be happy about being the only one with a boyfriend in people would maybe capy u in find them a bright side.
I know this because right now at this point i go have a boyfriend in my friends did have boyfriends but they all broke up .so i'am the only one out of my friends with a boyfriend in i have notin to say about that cause i know when this school year starts again my friends would just find a new boyfrend.
So if u need more help answer whatever jsut email me at red5brown@yahoo.com~.
2006-08-01 15:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kyla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17, and it was my first serious relationship.
I dont think you have to be the only one without a boyfriend, there are so many advantages to being single for a start! You can do what you like without worrying about the other person. You can play the field a little and see what type of guys you like? Dont settle for something you're unhappy with. Its cheaper to be single, trust me! You can be very independant and self-reliant which is always a good thing.
At the end of the day, its nice to have someone, but dont think its the be all and end all. When you're ready to find a boyfriend then do it, but dont do it because the rest are. If your friends jumped off a cliff would you do the same because they all did it?
2006-07-30 07:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 14, summer before freshman year of high school, and I was pretty much the first one in my class to have a real boyfriend. In middle school some people had had a "boyfriend", but it was never anything serious. I think high school is just fine and you shouldn't feel pressured or bad about not having one yet. Things will happen when they are ready to happen. Good luck!
2006-07-30 06:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b'out 13? 7th grade? Don't worry about it, though. It can be hard being the only one without a boyfriend, but there's really nothing wrong with it. You should focus on other things like goals and friends. Stupid boys are the last thing you should be worrying about. They're real assholes at that age.
2006-07-30 06:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Allison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel pressured to have a "boyfriend". I am out of middle school now (goin into 9th grade) and i have NEVER had a boyfriend. EVER. There is no need to have one in the SIXTH grade. That is way too young anyway.
People dont care if youve never had a Boyfriend.
2006-07-30 10:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by tangerine9561 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend. They are useless in middle school anyway. One of my friends date this one guy on and off for like 2 years. It was pitiful.
2006-07-30 16:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by amyjune289 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im going to middle school too and i had my first boyfriend in pre-k but my first real one in 4th grade but im single now.
2006-07-30 07:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by alyandaj_rushfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the 9th grade in high school , but I recommend not getting to serious with boys in jr high or high school concentrate on school and your future and you will find mr. right when you least expect it. I didnt find mine to I was 22 years old and had my heart broke plenty because I thought I needed a man. But I found mine finally we have been married 6 years and having a baby. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2006-07-30 07:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in 7th grade and i havn't had boyfriend yet and alot of girls in my grade hav and havn't only one of my friends has! so i'm not really worried because when a guy asks me out when he is ready i'll be okay with that! so trust me half the girls in 6th grade don't even have a boyfriend and won't untill 8th grade!!
2006-07-30 06:22:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋