2006-07-30 06:15:23 · 17 answers · asked by Poppy 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
What I mean is, I always seem to at fault. I'm not saying that I'm always right, I'm not arrogant. it's just that waht ever I say or do always seems to be wrong.
2006-07-30 06:59:15 · update #1
Waddyisme is on the right track, thanks.
2006-07-30 07:00:15 · update #2
I know. I do this too. Maybe we are just more sensitive to it than others. But I hate it. I'd rather glue my ear to a smelly dustbin than upset anyone, but I seem to have a particular talent for this. I once made a joke to my pal and she didn't speak to me for 3 weeks. It was meant to be a compliment. And I always seem to be upsetting this guy who's very special to me when I'm trying to say something good.
Maybe we should take a vow of silence. I will if you will...
2006-07-31 01:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Patchouli Pammy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do without putting your foot in it is to listen to people. Genuine listening to people is a very difficult skill, but once learnt, you can understand the other persons point of view and from that know how to reply and forward your opinions. Don't be so hard on yourself.It comes with practise...and who knows...you may be able to find out something about the other person rather than concentrating on trying to get your point of view across.
2006-07-30 06:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Secondly, it is not right to say specifically that a person is one way or another without long-time knowledge of them.
2006-07-30 07:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody does this. The fact is, most people either don't care that they upset people or they lack the emotional intelligence to know that they have.
You just happen to be very self aware of the effect you have on peoples lives.
I bet loads of people you know have said or done something that upset or pissed you off. And I bet you didn't say anything about it either .
You just need a bit more backbone.
2006-07-30 06:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 18:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a case of not thinking before you speak, I guess it probably is! You need to stop yourself from saying things that can hurt people. Sometimes things come to mind when I see some people, rarely I say something and regret it, but I am learning to be more thoughtful!
2006-07-30 06:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not always your fault some people are too serious for their own good and take everything personally,others are just unsociable.
Dont worry about it just concentrate on those that do like you and i'm sure that's plenty.
2006-07-30 06:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not something you are doing, it's a flaw in the people. The ony thing you are doing is coming into contact with sensitive people i guess. People are responsible for their own feelings, you can't make them feel anything.
2006-07-31 00:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Laura H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, tell the truth (always) and bugger what anyone thinks. This is how I live and I sleep well at night.
Don't worry so much, honey. They'll get over it.
2006-07-30 07:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ian H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where I'm from we call a person who does that an @sshole... There is hope, the simple fact that you are aware of it tells me that you can change!
2006-07-30 06:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by and,or,nand,nor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋