I am a 9th grader now. and I have liked a certian Girl, sience the 6th grade. She found out when i was in the 6th grade. but i was too shy around her to do anything about it. Now i know her, but am not reall a "Friend" as much as a person she knows. I do know her AIM. But am too shy to tell her that I like her. and i dont want to scare her away. I would like to talk to her in any other way than AIM. But i dont see her b/c its the summer. And i am going to a diffrent school than her this year. But still live in the same city. and I really dont know what to do. I cant look at a picture of any girl without thinking about her. She is the most important thing to me. I really just dont know what to do.
She is online on AIM now, but i can't seem to bring myself to tell her. And the only other way i know to tell her is Through Myspace.
Someone Please Help Me!!! I am in a Pickle, and dont know what to do :(
2006-07-30 06:02:40 · 16 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Start exercising daily. Even lift weights, if only dumbbells. Get your courage up, man!
Even if she doesn't like you the same way, you will have a lot of satisfaction from having spoken your mind and making your case. Then the obsession with this girl will fade a little bit, and someone else may catch your eye.
You're a loving and daring spirit, and I say go for it!
2006-07-30 06:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, There, I know how that can be I had liked this guy high school for 3 years and he was my friend and I never told him and I wished I did tell him so I would have felt better knowing I told him and not being so shy so I say you should tell her because you would feel better if she knew and getting it out there for yourself as well and if she says no then at least you told her it might hurt but then there will be some one out there who is better and it it is her loss not yours but then since you have talked on AIM then she may just surprise you but it will better you by telling her trust me on this least it is out there in the open ..God bless take care Good Luck you be will just fine ...
2006-07-30 13:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by kutiepye28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to her on line. through myspace. if you don't have a my space account-get one now-it's a way she can find out about you too! through myspace you can talk and become friends. get comfortable with her. get to know her. if that works out and you become friends online, you can hang out with her in person as a friend. eventually invite her to hang out with you and some friends in a group. if that works and you two have fun together you might just feel comfortable enough to make a move. for now, take it one small step at a time. just keep the whole thing casual. and build up a friendship/relationship like you would any other person you aren't interested in. Remember she's human and wants to be liked and accepted like everyone else.
good luck!
***(be carful confessing your feelings-if you do do it, don't do it as a big production that could scare her off if she may not feel the same way yet. Don't to the "I'm in love with you" or "I've liked you for years" unless you KNOW she is interested back. Feel her out first by saying small things like you think she is cute.)***
2006-07-30 13:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by sofun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you've liked her for 3 years and you've never made a move? Dude, you don't really want to find out how the story ends. Let sleeping beauty be rescued by another prince and you stay on the lily pad.
2006-07-30 13:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUst go tell heer now!!!!!!! you wont be talking to her besides aim or maybe you can vist her or something.TELL HER NOW!!! First say that you want her to know something then you say I am not trying to scare you away, but want you to know.Then say you like her...
Good luck! Also say that if she doesnt like you then tell her that you want to be friends.
2006-07-30 13:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by saying that you would like to hang-out. If you spend some time with her it might make the whole "I like you process" go a little easier. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-30 13:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by MPLS NEWBY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww i miss these days.. when you talk to her thru im or something maybe ask her for her number and see if she wants to hang out sometime.. you will eventually work the nerve to ask her out.. good luck...
take it slow.. you have been for the last 3 years so another couple of months won't hurt.. just during casual conversation ask her if she wants to hang out sometime and then maybe for her number and then gradually you two will be inseperable if she really gets to know you and like you..
good luck
2006-07-30 13:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found a website which is similar to myspace, http://www.friendscyberclub.com/ this website has all the features of my space like the photo upload, view pictures and profiles, forum, chat, message board, also there is a leader board, just like this one, see your name on the leader board, and you can also get to the top of the leader board, this site has both the features of yahoo answers and myspace,
2006-08-03 05:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by dev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in love wow move your *** quickly and tell here by phone Internet after all you'll not seeing her face to face to be shy and then maybe she's crazy about you and waiting for you to make the first step
2006-07-30 13:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by supernolwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her! Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Even if she is not interested in a relationship with you (and she very well might be interested in you too) at least you are not left wondering what might have been.
2006-07-30 13:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋