lately shes REALLY been pissing me off and i want to break up with her i found somebody else i really like so how can i break up with her without myself and her feeling bad?
2006-07-30 05:55:08 · 17 answers · asked by Puertorican Problem 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
its like this the things this girl tells me gets me mad and hurts me sometimes she says all this stuff when she went on vacation one time that some guy fingered her and thats really makin me feel like im nuthin.
2006-07-30 09:21:14 · update #1
tell her how you feal she will understand
2006-07-30 08:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by cynthia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well watever u do don't do it over the phone cause that hurts the worst to a girl just any day she is pissing you off just say hey latly you haven't been acting the same and i feel in love with the old you but i don't think i'll be seeing her anytime soon and well i don't think that this is going to work out anymore...oh yea and make sure you break up with her in a place where there are no blunt or pointy objects unless she is a cryer!!lol
good luck with that!
2006-07-30 07:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Shortie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, there isn't a way. It is going to feel bad no matter how you do it. You have together for a year. That is a long time.
The best thing to do is just be honest and don't delay it or it will be even worse. Just sit her down and tell her that things have been different and it isn't working anymore. You just can't see her anymore. No need to tell her you already found someone else.
2006-07-30 05:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe you've been with this girl for a year and you're considering about breaking up with her because shes been pissing you off?
My advice would be to try and work it out first. Obviously you two share something because you've been with each other for that long, so try talking to her about it? Explain to her whats been pissing you off? Having said that, you've found someone else already? Boy you move on quickly dont you!
2006-07-30 07:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will feel hurt regardless and she may be making you angry because you want an excuse to break up. Be a man and tell her that you think you have feelings for someone else. Tell her you are sorry for breaking her heart and she will find someone else who will appreciate and love her like she deserves to be treated.Then comfort her until she stops sobbing. You should feel bad. Unfortunately, you both will feel bad.
2006-07-30 06:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by duelpers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would never make it in the married world. You been with her for a year and she is making you mad so you want to break up with her...so lame.
So if you were married to her and she is making you mad, then you would want to divorce her.
Seems to me the problem is you not her...since you just admitted you found someone else...sounds like cheating to me.
2006-07-30 06:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell her. Not in e-mail or on the phone or in a letter. It will sink in quicker if you just tell her face to face. Even if she feels bad at the time she'll get over it. Life is way to short to stay in an unhappy relationship.
2006-07-30 06:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by Wrapped in Thorns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't break up with someone and not expect them to hurt! just tell her that's it's not working for you and that you want to separate for good. But please don't tell her you found someone else that you like it will REALLY make her cry(that was done to me!) Just do it in person though
2006-07-30 08:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by shasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious you are a gentleman who is considering her feelings.. you know her best, so without being mean.. tell her how you feel.. it will hurt a little but she will get over it.
2006-07-30 08:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by monie99701 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel.just dont tell her everything shes doing wrong let her know that you are doing some wrong too. let her down easy and im sure she will understand if not then she wasnt the right one for you anyway.
2006-07-31 06:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by t h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeez, she's pissing you off? or is it cause you found someone else? if it isn't working out and you don't see it going anywhere...say just that. remember karma....and tell her how you'd like to be told.
2006-07-30 06:19:58 · answer #11 · answered by crazymom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋