Some of my other friends told me that she was goin behind my back and tellin other people bad things about me. I want to approch her and ask her if she is, but i dont know a nice way to ask her ! can i have some help plez ?
2006-07-30 05:47:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you dont know...be little smarter than her...
you start talkin about her to other....
she will come to you and vomite your anger on her...
here is your own text..
Life is short u should live it the way u wanna ... be HAPPY ... dont be upset wit the way ur body looks !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-30 06:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by kittu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't a completly nice way to approach her , i mean it is not like she is going to just come out and say that she did it and she is verry sorry so I say that you should ask your friends if you haven't already what she hass been talkin about then set a date to seee her and whatever you do make sure you talk to her in person and no talk to her over the phone because then well she could just lie and nothing woould happen like you couldn't see her face to tell if she was leing to you oh yeah adn one more thing when byou meet make sure to have a witness so that if she tellls everyone different then you could bring put the witness and have them tell what they had seen when yu guys where talking , I don't really know if that will help but i know that for me that was all I needed to do yet maybe it is not for you.
2006-07-30 06:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by izzydwight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know if there is a nice way to do it. Just do it. She deserves to be caught so she will stop this. If you can, get your other friends there for support. They are the one's that brought it to your attention, they should be there to make sure that she is going to tell you an honest answer.
I had this happen to me and I confronted the girl and she never did it again.
Good luck!
2006-07-30 05:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty bad situation you are in about friend and friedship. I am a guy but was in similar situation and was thinking some harsh action against my classmate, but a senior guide stopped me and gave me sensible advise. I wish you too do that....
here it is...
Just write down plainly, in straight forward manner....make it a full page....write what trust you had about her and what caused you to say about her breaking the code......Don't use long sentences...be to the point.....and post the letter on her home address....that will be the nicest way to make your point.
2006-07-30 06:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by indraraj22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure and let her know how it makes you feel about your friendship rather than about her. I agree with the first answer. Its not nice to hear things being said about you behind your back ,especially if you have confided in her. Sometimes you cant be nice, you have to confront situations. Its a time and place for everything, i.e, love,hate, war, peace, to be born, to die,-get it!
Wasn't nothing nice about her talking about you behind your back. That's so immature.
2006-07-30 05:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by lock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your frineds what one of the rumors is and then say to her "I heard that someone said (whatever the rumor was). Have you heard anything about it?" And if that doesn't work then try to catch her in the act walk up behind her when she's talking about you. Good luck!
2006-07-30 06:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes going to say "no of course not why would you think that you are my best friend i would never do that to you" no matter what. if you trust your freinds listen to them and stop being the other girls freind you are just going to gat hurt so dont even bother with her. nobody deserves a freind like that so dont put your self through that.
2006-07-30 07:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by hkacfp_3_000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight forward & ask her, don't tell her where you heard it though. Listen as she answers you, you can tell whether it's the truth or not if you listen.
2006-07-30 05:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to her straight and ask
2006-07-30 05:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insted of asking her you can get her email address and just email it to her. Or you can text her. Thats what I do.
2006-07-30 05:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by Ghia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋