I'm so disappointed.When I have sex with my boyfriend I don't feel a thing.I don't know what is wrong with me or if it is something.I get excited at the begining, but I don't get orgasm.Should I change my partner?He's the only one I made with.
2006-07-30 05:45:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He may not be doing what turns you on. You need to experiment a little; maybe you need more touching elsewhere or to go faster/slower. Just the guy "doing his thing" doesn't do it for a lot of women; he may need to be more attentive to you.
2006-07-30 05:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by lotsayorks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you. Don't change partners if you really care about him. Read a book about sex and how to get more from it. If you're afraid or embarrassed to speak with him about it, then learn a little on your own so that you can increase your own chances of pleasure and not risk his hurt feelings. Lots of guys just don't "get" it that women may need more than just intercourse. Orgasm isn't always easily achieved that way. You might require manual stimulation, which is fine and in no way abnormal.
2006-07-30 13:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many women have that problem.
it can be caused by inexperience. you don't know what you should be feeling so you don't enjoy it.
and it can be caused by uncertainty about why you are having sex
as well, some guys have poor technique.
if your relationship with him is not really important to you there may be some advantage in changing partners. some women keep trying men until they find a good one.
alternatively, you could practise giving yourself an orgasm and use that to guide the guy in how to pleasure you.
2006-07-30 13:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women climax during sex (intercourse) because the stimulation isn't exactly in the right place ;) There's nothing wrong with you and you probably don't need to change partners, though you may want to have him stimulate you to climax in other ways first.
2006-07-30 12:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there nothing wrong with you. some women take longer thanothers, do you know how to masturbate? imnot tryin to be pervy i promise but if you dont know what gets youself off.. you cant expect any other man to be able to know.. read the book "our bodies ourselves" or whatever updated version of it they have now.. or you can surf here( http://www.literotica.com/aspasia/) for advice on that fomr people who are experts.
2006-07-30 12:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by darkling1k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he not packing or does he not know how to move if its the first one you made it with is he putting where it should be goodness if he is the first then theres no guarentee that you will get an orgasm take your time and discover what clicks and doesnt
2006-07-30 12:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Andy29Pandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your partner's penis is very small? joking apart...i think that many women have the same problem,so u wouldn't be neither the first one nor the last one...
2006-07-30 13:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-30 13:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-30 12:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by Ethan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋