I'm 22 yr grl who is falling in lov wid married guy who is 44 yr old what should i do i can't live without him n cant marry too...
2006-07-30 04:19:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well all people have answered your question. I think i dont have to say specially bcoz everything is included in all those answers.I think u r not in love with him it might be some crazy or some type of good opinion u have on him. it wont work out anyways.please forget him asap.u r a matured girl u can understand wat iam saying. u r lucky coz u urself got love on him but my case is different. my husband married to 2vomen but he convinced me to love him, he forced me and convinced me in all ways.initially i kept quite, later i believed his crocodile tears and sad story.thats all i got into his basket, he prolonged our love for 7 yrs then he married me. I am an Indian there is no way except to agree this coz i loved him alot.but it took 9 yrs to know his cunningness.i am aborted 3 times since he dont want me be a mother, he has a boy of 10 yrs already with his 2nd wife.now iam 25, he is 39.i cant express how much iam being hurted by his bhaviour.iam a slave to him.no love.i have burried all my thoughts and feelings as a woman.its horrible to say.but still i love him i cant accept any other man even if i left him or he left me.but yours is different situation n i think u r from different country which is well developed and very posh.so u may not have any social problem if u leave him.please drop down your thought about him.u have a great life ahead with lot of good and happiness.wait for a while and then get a perfect match for your taste and get married to him live a complete and lovely life with him all the ways.All the best.
2006-07-30 05:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your not going to have much in common with him and if you do there's something wrong with him second he is married he loves his wife or he would have left her already and if he is cheating on her with you you are just as wrong as he is. It would be different if you didn't know he was married and if he is willing to cheat on his wife with someone he would cheat on you to. Just go out and have fun with people closer to your age and while your out having fun think about how he is to old to be out doing that kind of stuff and the only thing you would have to look forward to with him would be Fri. night movies on his couch. Most importantly remember messing around with a married man makes you a not so good person.
2006-07-30 11:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and that if/when he decideds to get his marital affairs in order to give you a call.
staying in this will only prolong your heartache. the vast majority of people who have affairs rarely leave their marriages for the 'other' person. believe it or not, you will be HELPING his marriage by being his mistress on the side. you will provide him the 'emotional calories' that are missing and this will just make it easier to endure the misery he feels at home. don't think for one minute he is not sleeping with his wife, either. basically, you are signing a consent form for him to cheat on you. you probably wouldn't do this with a boyfriend. think about it. it is a formula for disaster. you deserve more than his 'leftovers'. tell him to look you up when/if he gets his divorce and if you are still available, you can resume where you left off. good luck!
2006-07-30 11:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please don't be with him. Stop and think carefully. Think about his wife. How would you feel if you were her? Run away from this and think about it from a moral perspective. It might be really hard to do this but I assure you that in a couple of months you will be so happy that you did. He is too old for you and in the longterm he will break your heart and remain with his wife.
2006-07-30 11:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u are 44 he will be 88 do u wanna live with that. Life begins at 40 could u live with that?eeewww
2006-07-30 11:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mona Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to leave him. He is married. You will be the victim in this relationship. Walk out of it. Find something to keep you occupy.
2006-07-30 11:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off or you will just be the other woman and waste away your youth
if you just want a f buddy without feelings, keep with him
i bet he sees you as nothing more than a f buddy
he will tell you different just to keep you though
2006-07-30 11:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ...Ha! He is giving you hopes and dreams that never will excist. You are just the girl on the side that is being played and you fell for it.
2006-07-30 11:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're heading for disaster - especially if he has kids. But you know this already deep deep down in your heart. Run .... now. You'll forget him soon enough ...
2006-07-30 11:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by mokui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well please consider his wife and or family. The age doesnt matter Im 20 yrs older than my husband.
But you will cause alot of pain for his wife. Also he will cheat on you as he has cheated on her- they never change..EVER!
2006-07-30 11:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by ceaceagogo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋