How do redefine yourself when you realized your life is not where you want it to be?

Answer 1

Turn around and go the right way just stop whatever you think is not what you want to be doing and do what you want .

Answer 2

If you are nowhere where you wanted to be, then you are somewhere where the people related to you (your parents, spouse/partner) wanted to be. Don't you think so ? In every action either you are PROACTIVE or REACTIVE. It seems as if till now, you've been reactive and were reacting to the circumstances/situations which were in front of you. You can be anywhere where you want to be only if you're proactive and listen to your thoughts and start taking actions toward your dreams without bothering about the problems on the way to your dream. Thank God, even though if you're not happy atleast someone related to you is happy for your location if life now. Don't just make a living, but design your life. Bye.

Answer 3

This seems to be a sypmtom of Mid-Life crisss.

Normally the first signs of Mid-Life crisis is the realisation that one is nowhere near the goals that one set out oneself when still as an young adult.

Sit back and RE-FRAME your goals as of NOW - looking into your personal, physical, emotional, intellectual NEEDS - setting out for yourself what is relevant and necessary AS OF NOW.

One of the major blocks that could arise would be the necessity to forgiv yourself and others for all the hurts and pains collected over years!
For this the best way would be to LET GO all, all of them with a " Thank you... You have been a GIFT to realise mySelf "

Here is wishing you the very best to you.

Answer 4

write down a list of things u want 2 change. work at 2 of them a week until ur list is completed.remember 2 reward urself 2 if u keep doing a good job at changing urself n do not reward urself u will not want 2 follow through with the changes.

Answer 5

I say imagine where you would like to be with your life, think of all the steps you need to take to get there and then start working on the steps everyday til you finally are close to having the life u want.

Answer 6

don try to control ur life...thats like tryin to stop a waterfall from falling.you cant stop it and u end up crashing on the rocks below.jus live life and go where it takes u to.cos u'll find that the place u've reached is more beautiful than where u wan it to be.LOVE LIFE AND LIFE WIL LOVE YOU BACK!!!1and keep smiling.your world wil be filled with happines

Answer 7

Think about where you do want to be, figure out what needs to be changed to get there, and change it. Every one goes through this at some point, I think. Some take action, others don't. Decide if, ten years from now, you'll be depressed because you didn't take action.

Answer 8

Put or plan in motion, its never too late to go onto school. I would first write your self a list of what you want. Then check them off as you go. It will give you a sense of accomplishment. Good Luck

Answer 9

Take it to God: "No man can lay hold of anything unless it is granted him from heaven." John the Baptist said that and I believe it... Have a heart-to-heart with your heavenly Daddy and let Him have His way in you and you'll find it all works out...

Answer 10

"The Feeling Good Book," by Dr. David Burns, and the workbook. The questions are very tough, but they help.

Answer 11

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