Being Committed, what does that mean to people and especally to men?

Question

Most men can not commit or be faithful to a relationship or a marriage. Why do they feel that they are suppose to have every woman that "looks good" to them. Now I understand why the women are beginning to do the same thing.

Answer 1

Some people just aren't ready for a commitment or mature enough to handle a relationship. Unfortunately, some folks are selfish and despite knowing this, still want the love and security a relationship provides. Instead of being happy with what they have, they want to continue to sample the menu. Some men indulge in this behavior, because there are so many women that are lonely and looking for happiness & mr. right. They are vulnerable, some desperate and will endure a great deal in a relationship. Women are nurturers by nature and so they will keep trying, where men will not. Some women get sick of it and then they become branded as bi-tches, gold diggers or men haters. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of great guys out there that have developed lasting relationships. but women will always work harder and get more slack.

Answer 2

That's tough. It takes a man with a certain degree of maturity. It takes the self confidence and control to truly appreciate the many good, sexy, wonderful qualities of the person that you are with rather than focus on those qualities that are not so attractive or that we socially think are acceptable attractive or desired. In sum be grateful for what you have and stop obsessing on what you dont.

Answer 3

Being committed means what it says, being loyal and faithful and honoring the covenants you've made with and to your partner.Since I don't know "most" men, I can't speak to their motivations or intents, but there are plenty of men of good conscience who believe in the virtues of being "virtuous".

Answer 4

I think your "most men" generality is not true. But many behave that way, as do many women. And that's pretty sad.

Answer 5

Are you commited and faithful?