My x girlfriend frm yrs ago is back frm Europe. She found out I'm married and is spreading rumors what can ido

Question

Now this is goin to sound strange. I dated her for a year long before I was married. And I met my wife while I was with my x. My x left for Europe and I figured I'd never see her again. Now she's back and I just found out about 20min ago that she is telling women left and right that I'm an exceptional lover and well endowed, she is telling them that I'm charming etc etc. The problem is that she is giving out my phone number, email and other info as well as some (somewhat) interesting pics of me. What should I do I just started getting massive numbers of emails and my damn phones won't stop ringing. WTF. (as if I don't have enough sh!t going on). I have no idea what she hopes to accomplish by this; is she trying to break up me and my wife or what? Somebody's gotta know something I can do. Why couldn't this happen when I was single?

My wife thinks the whole thing is stupid and she told me not to worry about it. But still...

A lot of people are saying to press charges but how can I when what she is saying is 1. true and 2. not negative. As far as I see this would get laughed out of any court.

Answer 1

you love your wife
your wife loves you
so the silly woman {your ex} wants to cause trouble well it wont happen because you no and your wife knows that the love you have for each is to Strong to be taken away by a silly ex
if you ignore the ex believe me she will stop she wants attention
just let her rattle her gums Hun
you and your wife are one let the silly ex fade away because she will if you leave her to it
but if you start taking notice she is carry on
good luck just keep loving your wife you have a good life don't let a silly ex spoil what you have
respect
shaz

Answer 2

Wow....this sounds like the movie "Fatal Attraction." This girl is crazy and needs to be tamed. You have to go to the police and file harassment charges against her and everyone else she is setting up to call you or email you. Answer their phone calls and emails one last time and let them know you are pressing charges. At least most of them will believe you and stop. Most people don't want any kind of record. But...you have to do it; you can't just threaten it! Good luck!!

Answer 3

First, tell your wife what is going on, be honest with her.
Then, you introduce your ex-girlfriend to your wife, heading the girlfriend off at the pass and giving your wife a chance to confront that b****.
But, you stay completely clear of the ex, you don't want anyone to misinterpret and add flame to those rumors..
Good Luck.

Answer 4

Sit your wife down and talk to her before the rumors get to her. She will hear them and if she didn't hear them from you then she is going to get suspicious and think you are hiding from her. Try just talking to her then after you have explained things to your wife that is when you confront the ex-girlfriend. Tell her that she is being childish and she needs to grow up. Tell her to stop or you might have to take farther legal actions. Good luck.

Answer 5

Call the phone company and tell them that you are receiving harrassing phone calls. They will give you another number free of charge. Inform them you want this number unlisted. Also delete your email account and open up another one under an assumed named. Other than that, ignore what the ex is saying.

Answer 6

My friend, hell has no fury like a womans scorn. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Some simple things you can do is to just change your phone number and address. As far as court goes, what she is doing does constitute harrassment. However, it sounds to me like you have a loving and understanding wife who understands what your ex is trying to do so you shouldn't really worry about it. I will be praying for you and your situation. Peace and God bless.

Answer 7

Id go with what your wife says and you know a little tit for tat never hurt a thing each woman that calls tell them that the she is a wonderful lesbian lover who is very erotic and is just to shy to approach women and she does that so that you can relay the message to them

Answer 8

Rumors? how mean....I wish some would pass around those rumors about me....even IF I were married.......but I guess it does make it hard on a marriage.....explain to your wife, and let her answer the phone....let her take care of te situation....

Answer 9

Just inform yr wife before these rumors reaches to her and then ignore her.

Answer 10

I agree with what "trublnmnd" said to u. And the Important thing , your wife does not care with what your x did.