i want to know what or how people think about marriage even if you are male or female
what realy marriage means to u?
2006-07-30 02:30:49 · 31 answers · asked by lola25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think that marriage is d best commitment that anyone can make in life. its really a secret vow to that person to prove his/her love for each other and marriage to me means everything since its rightly approved by God.
2006-07-30 03:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by sweetbiscuit 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Marriage is a man-made concept. Although the idea is very good. When two people find a connection in this crazy world and they want to make a commitment to each other, that is marriage. Marriage isn't the exchange of vows, the flowers or the rings. It is rather the devotion and effort that goes into helping and caring for another human being. A selfless love. It's not easy. It's never supposed to be easy. It it were, then something is wrong. Just like anything else that is truly worth preserving, this relationship takes a lot of hard work. Just because you hit bumps along the road does not mean you and your significant other were not meant to be. You've got to be strong, your LOVE has got to be strong.
Marriage could end up to be the most wonderful part of your life, if you let it be that is. Or it could completely break you and tear you up, if you let it.
2006-07-30 09:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by Brookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think many people believe marriage is ideally finding the right person and the right circumstance and living the idyllic "happily ever after" in some sort of blissful fog. I think of marriage as a miracle you create with someone else through your own hard work, perseverence, and dedication. It's a confluence of both spiritual and physical love, faith and loyalty that blends two whole people into a living unit that is geater than the two apart; a place where your weaknesses are buffered and your strengths magnified. A place where your individual and mutual goals are supported, and where you find and give acceptance...where you are free to be yourself, yet you strive to be even better. You are family, in its highest ordained sense. As such, it's likely the greatest and most challenging work you'll ever do.
2006-07-30 10:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The scariest thing about marriage is the long-term commitment and the implied permanence of that commitment. I can think of no other non-religious human relationship that requires it. So many people find it difficult or impossible to live up that ideal. That's why marriage is not right for everyone and why half of all marriages end up in divorce.
2006-07-30 09:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have been married for 28 years and we've had fun all the way. You have to work to make a marriage a success, and always use the 50/50 rule, i.e. share and do everything 50/50, or negotiate. And the sex is just as great, if not greater, than the first time together.
2006-07-30 09:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is NOT easy, but can be wonderful. It's nice having someone love you even when you're having a bad or don't look your best. But don't kid yourself, for a marriage to work it takes a lot of time and effort from both spouses. For me? I love being married. If I knew it would be this great I would have gotten married younger.
2006-07-30 12:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Berdie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 18 years of marriage and got cheated on, marriage, to me, does not mean a thing when one party fails to fulfil the meaning.
2006-07-30 10:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being marriage is knowing that u are going to spend the rest of your life with the person that u love and that u will always have somebody for u to pull u back up when u are feel down and a shoulder to cry on and a best friend when u don't have a best friend i have being married for almost 9yrs now with two kids but we have being know each other for 12 yrs , and we have ours problems but we sit down like adults and work them out
2006-07-30 09:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the ritual that is placing the two half hearts together, making the whole love heart. Marriage is the most beautiful real dream on Earth.
2006-07-30 09:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Soso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage to me means two people taking vows to stay bonded together until death do them part!!!! That means even in the bad and hard times somehow ,you must work together to keep the relationship strong!!! it means going through many obstacles struggles and pain and being there together after the hard times has passed and saying Damn We made it though that !!!!So we can make it through anything as long as we stick Together!
2006-07-30 09:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a covenant made between a man and woman commiting before God and the people around them that they'll love one another and cherish one another. Also, it's a commitment made to be faithful to each other.
Marriage to me means what i just said. And to love one another and nurture our young together. Besides all these, to serve one another until we return to our Heavenly Father!
2006-07-30 09:47:06 · answer #11 · answered by denizen251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋