he says they are just friends and that he didnt think that telling them he was single would hurt any one as he wouldnt actually meet them as they were on the otherside of the world.
2006-07-30 02:20:13 · 34 answers · asked by andrea l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ummmmmm......no. He's probably cheating on you. And if he isn't this is a sure sign that he isn't ready for a relationship and may start in the future or blame you for 'tying him down too early'. Another thing, I consider cyber sex cheating. Do you? Think about that. He may not.
2006-07-30 02:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he told them his real status, he would have probably gotten away with it. But since he is telling them he is single... there is definitely something fishy!! And if he is saying he is innocent then why is chatting to only women, why not chat to other men too? There is definitely a romantic aim involved. When a man is friendly to a woman and tells her he is single she starts getting romantic ideas of herself and him together... and then he gets tempted too... This can also be vice versa too!!
Talk to him about this and tell how much this is hurting you. Tell him to imagine that it wasn't him doing all that, but it was you instead. How would he feel then? Would he be cool with it? I think not!
And if this does not work.... darling pack ur bags and get outta there!! Every woman deserves to be treated with respect and not used as a second class convenience thing!!
2006-07-30 02:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'll say it like this NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!! It takes one step to start an affair and he's already taken it, he's lying to them, and really lying about you. How dare he disrespect you by pretending you don't exist! Why would he tell any women no matter where they were located that he was single? If he wasn't looking to hookup with them why pretend to be single? At best he's an idiot, and at worst he IS going to break your heart. Pleae for own sake go, or make him go but get out....
2006-07-30 02:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sidoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me rephrase your question for you so you'll see the obvious: Should you "trust" your boyfriend who has been secretly corresponding with other women and lying to them about his single status? Plus or minus a word here and there, isn't that exactly what you conveyed? Would you trust an alligator with a human foot hanging out of its mouth not to bite you?
2006-07-30 02:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Just friends" is one thing. If they were TRULY just friends, he should have NO problem being honest with them about having a girlfriend! It sounds to me as though he may want to really be single. I would be VERY leery. Play the field while its open, have faith that "mr right" is out there and don't settle for "mr right now"....that's how I ended up divorced!
2006-07-30 02:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by geniec67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully I would be jealous if it was my boyfriend/husband and I would not like it. But some people do not have a jelous streak in them and dont care but it does sound like you do and I would try to end that. Just think if that is what he is doing online what is he doing when you are not around and he is out and about. Something to think about
2006-07-30 02:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a sexual predator. Get rid of him now before he hurts you even more, he is not to be trusted. Dont fall for his sob story when you tell him to go. There are other decent men around, dont be used. Show him your answers. Be strong, good luck. You will find real love one day.
2006-07-30 03:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by Tallboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cyber affairs are just as hurt full as real life because they are living a dream reality. Ask him while hes on line if you can read all the conversations they've had. Watch his reaction!
2006-07-30 02:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by simply me xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you still call him "boyfriend"? Ditch him, girl, or face a pile of trouble and heartache. I'm a guy, so I know how he thinks, and he's playing you for a fool. Look for someone who is honest and appreciates a great girl.
2006-07-30 02:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEfenitely sketchy
A lot of men are in thier minds just messing around,but if he got a proposal, I would fear the worst.
It is hard to say no and he is defenitely setting himself up
2006-07-30 02:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by billyandgaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋