2006-07-30 02:12:10 · 16 answers · asked by Smiley Freckles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are several websites out there. I like this one:
Welcome to The Marriage Bed
The Marriage Bed provides a Christian alternative for married and engaged couples seeking information about marital intimacy. We combine the truth of the Bible with biological facts to educate, edify and minister to those seeking God's best for their marriage relationship. Whether you are just starting out, have some problems, or just want to improve an already good love life, we offer information and resources on many areas of sexuality and marriage enrichment.
Paul & Lori
http://www.themarriagebed.com/
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Loosely based on Gary Chapman's five love languages, plus tips on a couple's spiritual and sexual lives.
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The Generous Wife
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Daily email with ideas and tips for blessing your husband.
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Marriage Resources
Family Life is a dynamic ministry that provides practical, biblical tools to strengthen marriage and family relationships, including the FamilyLife Marriage Conference, FamilyLife Parenting Conference, and nationally-syndicated, daily radio program, FamilyLife Today. They have some great articles on their site plus free devotionals and romantic tips.
http://www.familylife.com/
Marriage Builders (Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr.) - On the Marriage Builders site, you will be introduced to some of the best ways to overcome marital conflicts and some of the quickest ways to restore love.
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/index.ht...
Family.org is the web site of Focus on the Family. They have a really nice section for husbands and wives with great articles and a solid selection of resources.
http://www.family.org/married/topics/...
The Marriage Bed - sex and intimacy for married Christians
http://www.themarriagebed.com/
Hope this helps.
Good Luck & God Bless!
QTI
2006-07-30 03:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your loved one. Ask what they would like to do to keep the sparks going. Tell your spouse what you would like. There are many things you could do and some might sound crazy but if you try and both enjoy it really isn't crazy
There are many romantic games on the Internet that you could by and try. There are also many toys and aids you could check out that is if you want. Back to the games. Try them. Go up into your bedroom take the time to play them. As you do you might see that only thing the games are doing is helping you talk about your feelings and wants. The games also can be fun and exciting.
Make time for just the two of you. If needed make appointments. Always flirt with your spouse.
2006-07-30 02:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out to the book store and buy this book called The Fun Boko for Couples: 102 Ways to Celebrate Love written by Melina Gerosa Bellows. This is not for the bedroom but it might give you some sort of idea for this issue. Also try adding some sort of sensual and romantic things for the bedroom. Maybe roleplay for him a little bit or wear some sort of sexy things for him a few times. Also see if he would like to watch or play with your toys with you. For instance, instead of playing alone have him watch or have him do it for you. It can't hurt to try. All he can say is that he doesn't like it. Also try sensual and romantic themes every once in a while. It can't hurt to maybe cook a special dinner and have candles lit that away the two of you are happy and in the moment. I hope this helps. Good Luck!
2006-07-30 03:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by lmfansler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be atheists I do not know where you got your info but when your married you have many tax breaks can enjoy his work benefits. Have better credit since when you combine two incomes it gives you the ability to get more expensive properties etc.. You are in a legally binding contract which makes people more comfortable and defines your commitment to one and another. You have kids together get married to atleast show your kids that this is what mature responsible couples do when they are in love. Maybe you are scared things will change when you marry if you allow them too it will happen if you don't it will. Really though it is a sin to live and have sex without marriage and your children are generally considered bastards since you have had them as an unwed parent. Find God be blessed by him for you and your childrens sake. Marriage is hardwork but it is the emotional and financial and the having the support and care of a loved one that makes it worthwhile.
2016-03-16 08:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can promise you that I can only keep romance exciting and sparks after and after many years but I don't know in your case.Some how hope the best or try for me.
2006-07-30 02:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by mohd s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the reason you fell in love in the first place. Even if it takes some thinking. You'll remember what ignited that original spark, and should be able to reignite it again!!
2006-07-30 02:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by redeye.treefrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can set up a romantic date with him...send him the invitation in a nice heart cut up piece of paper smelling of your perfume and take him to the place where you went on your first date, if you still live in that city. There is also a company called messages in a bottle...search on google. they Have great romantic ideas.
2006-07-30 02:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by missy1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly never let ur figure get out of shape as it will lose interst of ur husband on u. Make sure to be with him always but also but aso provide him the space to be free to think . hope it works out very well
2006-07-30 02:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by At ur Service 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication! One of the biggest things I wish my wife would do is to tell me everything thats on her mind. If she has a romantic or freaky thought I would love for her to tell me. So talk to him ask him, "Hey honey, you ever wanted to ________." He is your husband so there really isn't anything to be afraid of.
2006-07-30 02:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to stores that sell adult toys and materials also you could role play and just cuddle and snuggle up each chance you get and continually let your spouse know,How much you love them!!!! My hubby has been telling me that He loves me everyday for 20 years and I look forward to hearing it daily!
2006-07-30 03:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋