2006-07-30 02:09:33 · 17 answers · asked by andrea l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is something you have to figure out. There are about a gizzilion factors you have to consider. Did he lie to you about e-mailing women? is he flirting excessively in the emails? are these women who he has had romantic relationships with in the past? Did you guys discuss the boundries in your relationship.
If he is just talking to other women online but is open and honest about it I don't see a problem.
If he his having/had relationships with these women and is hiding it I would discuss it with him and let him know that it made me worry and let him decided how he wanted to handle it.
2006-07-30 02:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by JenniferJeanne84fromCanada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about him speaking to other which I assume you do. You should talk about it. You should tell him that it bothers you. If he loves you and respects you, he will stop doing that.
Trust... depends, does he go out without you knowing where he goes? Do you feel him turning distanced, because that's a big sign ... of not trusting him. A sign he is seeing someone else.
It also depends on how long you are seeing him already, if its months or years.
If he is with you for months .. the relationship is more fragile, but years , ... it would be a shame to just let go...
That's where you have to work on each other, discuss things, be open with each other. and tell him exactly how you feel, ok?
2006-07-30 02:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Shiry Madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must know the answer to that question yourself!! Or maybe not.....Of course trust him, then, when he wants to meet them you could maybe drive him over to their place and wait outside while they bonk each others brains out, then you can take him back home while he tells you how much he really loves you and other women really mean nothing to him!!
Or you could wake up and smell the flowers!
2006-07-30 02:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i email different men on the internet...some live far away and i have no intention of meeting them.. they are just interesting to talk to.. some do not understand this but i do not see anything wrong with it.. they have to trust me because i know that i am not doing anything wrong.. i date this guy but he gets upset over spilled milk so he is really not going to work out for me just because of his trying to contol what i do and we are just dating...i have been married most of my life and i am not going to marry again unless i know the guy is fun to be with and not going to gripe at me over every little unimportant thing...
2006-07-30 02:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if they are mates or not. mine met someone on a games site once and they got chatting, then I joined. She then made a point of making friends with me too so I didn't get offended by them two speaking.
2006-07-30 02:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Captain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u can, as mailing someone is not bad, if hes mailing something not good then u need to talk to him on that issue.........
2006-07-30 02:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by At ur Service 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you obviously can't trust him. Dump him and tell him that next time he is in a relationship he should try being mental faithful.
2006-07-30 02:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether his emails are friendly chat or something more. Will he let you see the email he sends and receives? If not I'd find that suspicious.
2006-07-30 02:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can trust him.an e mail is not the end of the world.ask him who is the women he is talking with.
good luck!
2006-07-30 02:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am doing this too, and my husband is not aware of it. I am not doing anything other than this, but I am doing it because my husband is not attentive enough to me - perhaps you should consider why YOUR boyfriend is doing it?
2006-07-30 02:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋