My boyfreind has invited me to his family reunion where I will, of course, be introduce to a lot of his family members...Now we are fighting...he does not want me to wear tight jeans and he does not want me to smoke...he says he was attracted to me for these very reasons, but he does not want his family to think he is attract to "this kind of girl". I say I should be me...wear tight jeans and smoke...what does everyone else think...should I be me or is he trying to change me for this one time? I like regular sexy look and so doe he...they don't call me tina tight pants for no reason.
2006-07-30 02:04:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you gotta ask yourself: do you love him enough to change for him this one time? you know he loves you the way you are and thats all that really matters. That all depends on you. He just wants his family to accept you. I dont think hes trying to change you or anything. so think about it....
2006-07-30 02:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first impressions are very important on other people that don't know u so out of respect for him and his family it would be good 2 tone it down 4 just this one time. and then after they get 2 know u a lil better then u can let the Tina tight pants come out.lol
2006-07-30 02:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by winterlvr66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First impressions are lasting impressions.
I understand your position but can you not do those things so his family sees the best impression? I guess his big mistake was saying "this kind of girl". He should have just asked that it be toned down.
The best kind of sexy is something you give off. It should not just come from something you have to wear. Some times some situations call for restraint. Can you exercise that?
Let them get to know you for what's inside. The best way to do that is present yourself in an approachable manner. As they get to know you, you can show more of that side of you.
Is it really that bad?
2006-07-30 02:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tina, you take exhilaration in being an exhibitionist and probably extremely a tease - and that is okay. for sure some human beings discover this objectionable and some get very disillusioned about it. i'm no longer kidding at the same time as i suggestions you no longer to gown like this especially factors of the international - you could actually be harmed or perhaps killed because of it. yet your situation with the boyfriend is a diverse remember. If he likes you as you're, with suggestions from himself, yet no longer the position his relations or possibly others ought to merchandise, then you somewhat've gotten a higher situation than you imagine. in case your relationship persists you need to discover him determining to administration you and dictate the way you look and act in public. From the outdoors we do not recognize that lots of the records. So if we are incorrect about the boyfriend, each and each and every of the better. with regards to travelling his relations, you may evaluate even if you imagine that is major adequate for you to adapt to their customs, out of recognize, fairly than to conceal the guy you're. As for me, i love your self-description. merely one irrelevant question - why worry with the thong?
2016-11-26 23:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hypocritical for him to try to represent you in front of his family as something you're not, and as such it's virtually doomed to be an uncomfortable affair. That said,even as a smoker myself I have to be aware that I can't smoke just anywhere, so that's something you might need to be sensitive to because not everyone smokes. But in every other regard, be yourself, or don't go. The facade would collapse before you were even aware of it, and it's not fair to you (or them) to entertain with phoniness.
2006-07-30 02:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to change you. BUT a thong exposed is inappropriate anywhere you go. Basically he is telling you that you look like a whore, which is what attracted him to you. He just does't want to bring a whore to the family reunion. The relationship is doomed!!!!!
2006-07-30 02:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO U, F'UCK HIM HEY IF HE CAN'T ACCEPT U FOR WHO U ARE AND THAT'S WHY HE LIKED U IN THE FIRST PLACE THEN HE CAN'T COMPLAIN
2006-07-30 03:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by dittty2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋