I feel that I can't find someone to love or even good enough to talk with. do you agree?
2006-07-30 01:56:13 · 10 answers · asked by Emma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
men are piggs and women are... well you know
2006-07-30 02:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be extremely selectful. You do not need to just find someone because of their outward appearance. Find someone who has qualities like being honest, trustworthy, faithful and has outstanding morals. This kind of person through the hardest times in life will always find a way to help you through this and become a better person. An individual who does not have these qualities will leave you at the sign of a hard moment that life will offer you. I have seen this so much in life, where men and women both cannot deal with adversity and hardship very well. They just quit. Yes the last characteristic is how do they deal with extreme adversity? If they can deal with this in a positive manner and not go around all the time moping and feeling sorry for themselves then you have found a good man. I guess to sum all this up "being a "Godly" man. Then you will have found what you are looking for.
2006-07-30 02:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is hard to find good guys, but not impossible, I can testify to that. I'm not usually a big believer in those typical cliche's about there being "someone out there for everyone" but I suppose with hindsight, it's fairly close to the mark. I used to feel that I wouldn't find someone who I could love and who would love me back, my problem was that I had read too many articles about women who look for men with similar qualities to their father's, that was enough to make me feel doomed since my father was an abusive alcoholic who subjected my mother and us to years of hell and wore our self esteem down to nothing. As a result I put up barriers to try and protect myself from the wrong guys while pushing away any potential right guys. I'll try not to bore you with the long story and keep it as short as possible, but I met my partner three and a half years ago, who is not only the complete opposite of my father, he also stuck by me despite my efforts to push him away (screwed up, I know. At the time, I thought I was being perfectly logical) and helped me realise that I was good enough to be loved and appreciated. A lot of the problem lay with how I saw myself, rather than how others might see me, I don't know what your current situation is, but don't lose hope, everyone who is able to love, deserves to be loved back.
2006-07-30 03:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by liltinyone:-) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i finally found a good man recently.
i may be lucky to have met him.
i dont think its that hard.
some are good and the others are bad.
good luck
2006-07-30 02:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by ★japanese lady★ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good afternoon Emma
I don't agree at all, there are some of us guys that are definitely good to talk to and as for loving? well who knows.
So what are you looking for then.....
adam13alex13@yahoo.co.uk
2006-07-30 02:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree
2006-07-30 02:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ravi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are some good guys but you have to open your eyes
2006-07-30 02:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by TONI K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I give up. I am keeping my old one.
2006-07-30 02:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by catstu9526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree.........both girls and boys.......
The world is out of good people nwdazz...........
2006-07-30 02:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by SATJ12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-30 02:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by shaneprinceforu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋