Can someone live in a big lie then live to believe it ?

Question

Live to lie and lie till believe with no way to reach ..

Answer 1

Of course if you believe in anything hard enough eventually it will become your reality.

Answer 2

Definitely. Especially people that lie a lot. The easiest way to keep track is to believe that everything actually happened. I used to lie like crazy when I was a teen, to stand out and be impressive and seem more interesting. I stopped a long time ago because there is no use in it. When l think back though, I still sometimes have to think REALLY hard to remember the truth and what actually happened because I did such a good job of convincing myself of my own lies. Very sad.

Answer 3

I think it is possible. My wife and I had a conversation recently about moving. In 2002, my wife was starting to have problems. She said we should move to a big city because she did not wan to tlive where we were in a small town. I am a small town person, so moving to a big city would be too much for me. I was willing to compromise and told her we could move to small city. She said ok but then said no don't worry we can stay here. She started to think about the standard of living and it was much easier to live in a small town. By 2003, she had gotten worse and insisted that we move and I said ok to a small city and she said fine. By 2004, I had not found a job yet in a small city and she was very bad. All the while, I was trying to help her get better and trying to understand what was happening to her. She is bi-polar. She started to have problems with reality and fantasy.

To sum up. When we started to have this recent conversation, she had it in her mind that we were going to move to the big city in 2002. I told her no we were not. I never agreed to it. Asked her if she remembers and she said no. In her state thatshe was in 2002-04, she could not understand reality and fantasy. Her fantasies were her realities. Now that she is on medication, she does understand the two, but not this. She held on to the belief that we were going to move in 2002. She held on to that belief as though it were a reality even on the medication. That fantasy stayed as a reality because she could not keep the two straight back then and it stayed that way. I explained to her our conversation back then and she could not remember it. She understands now what happen, but she insists that she did not get sick until 2004.

I am sorry. I got off track a little. I guess it is possible to reach someone. They can believe a lie and then live to believe it. In my wife's case, it wan't a lie but it was similar. A belief that became a reality that stayed that way.

Answer 4

Yes. Absolutely yes! If you live a lie for long enough, it becomes truth to you. I know someone who lived a lie, and in the end he couldn't even remember what the truth was. You're better of telling the truth right from the very beginning.

Answer 5

At 50 years old I have seen people from all walks of life do this. From a person without morals to the "Christian" warming the bench to our politicians be they Democrats or Republicans.

Answer 6

My father used to tell us kids that he was an apostle of God. I know that's weired, anyway, he grew to believe it and now he lives like a recluse down south as one of these wackos that hold the Jesus signs down town at the bus stop.

Answer 7

Absolutely, and that is a wide spread problem with people that choose to absorb the propaganda that stems from many sources, such as, so-called religious doctrine, our corruptament, and the media...

Answer 8

Can anyone NOT?

Good luck trying to live in the land of irrefutable truth~

You will be homeless in a week.

Answer 9

I believe O.J. Simpson is doing that very thing.

Possibly Michael Jackson as well.

And countless others.

Answer 10

Meet a politician or fundamentalist religious person of any religion.