She still wants to be my friend, but wants to be the best friend of the hottest guy in the school who i like but always shy to talk to him. And she also wants to be the most popular girl by being the best friend of the most sexy girl of the college whom i clearly hate! She has changed since she is going out with the friend of the hot guy but i know that i am going to lose her if she enters into that group. Help me!!How should i convince her??? I also fear that she tells the girl all my secrets and bad things that i said about her.
2006-07-30 01:30:34 · 9 answers · asked by Nicegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well its childish on your part to want to delegate who she is suppose to be friends with or not. Yes people change.. thats the sad part. People are so easily influenced these days to become like others to "fit" into a group of people. If she is your true friend.. then tell her how you feel... then let her make the decision without interviening. If she is that easily influenced to change that quickly.. then she is not mature yet. If she betrays you by telling stuff in confidence.. then she is not much of a friend. One good pointer that I learned the hard way over the years.. is NEVER EVER tell anyone something that you wouldnt want told. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-07-30 01:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when is was still in school, I had a friend that just went completely off. One day she was a decent human being, and the next she was gone. People are going to be who they are no matter what. I tried to help my friend and for 22 years now I have had to pay for it. This girl turned against me and has wrecked havoc on everyone I hold dear in my heart. She is a very mean, hateful, evil thing that.....She hurts everyone in her life. You need to let that girl go. How's the old saying go "If you love someone then set the free, if they love you, they will come back. She is not just your friend, I can tell she is a sister, it's gonna be hard but you can do it. Good Luck to You.
2006-07-30 02:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by sillyredhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you guys are growing out of each other. Would you really want to be friends with someone who would tell your secrets just to look good in front of someone else? If you want to try and keep the friendship i suggest you sit her down and have an honest talk with her about how you feel and ask her how she feels. Gaging from her reaction you will know where the friendship is going.
2006-07-30 01:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't need her as a friend anymore.
Believe me as life goes on you will have alot of friends that come and go. It's better to have a few awsome friends that are truely there for you, than alot of friends like you have now..
2006-07-30 01:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her as assss ya
such shameless and selfish people should be beaten to death
i have also undergone through such circumstances and lost whome i thought were my very good friends
i kept on thinking about them and finally got badly depressed
then i decided that i will not even care for such friends who dont care for me and are selfish and want to become popular
i know god loves everybody and even me so i doesnt effect me if i break up wit a friends or two
2006-07-30 01:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by monica705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut off the relationship
2006-07-30 01:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by sidrav_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take ur time n decide...
if u need her frndship like anythin..convince her..
otherwise...look out 4 another
2006-07-30 01:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by ram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better stay away from her...she did that in school, imagine what she can do later in bigger environment.
2006-07-30 01:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by yenny t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a shame..
2006-07-30 01:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋