I'm marage but my husband doest like it
2006-07-30 01:23:15 · 16 answers · asked by sharibar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
aite first thing learn english........then 2nd....maybe he's with someone else !!!
2006-07-30 01:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Get a Life !!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This exact same thing happened with my ex-girlfriend while she was with her ex-husband. He didn't like her looking so hot so he got her to quit wearing makeup, gain weight, and cut most of her hair off so other guys would quit looking at her. Guess what happened? He didn't want her after that either! A few hellish years later she finally left him.
Your husband doesn't like it because he's possessive and he's jealous of other guys who keep looking at you. He'd rather destroy your self-esteem than deal with his own insecurities. He clearly doubts his ability to hold onto a "hot girl", so he wants to make that easier by getting you to stop doing everything that you did to attract him!
I have to wonder why you said "I'm a hot girl and I don't like it". The next thing that you said was "my husband doesn't like it". So who doesn't like it that you're hot, you or your husband? You've obviously liked looking sexy in the past. Your husband might already be brainwashing you into thinking that you don't like looking good if you're already parrotting his opinions.
Tell him that you won't do anything that'll make you feel worse about yourself just so he feels less insecure. If he doesn't trust you, then you have a whole new problem on your hands.
2006-07-30 08:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by ardra71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you don't like the way you look or your husband doesn't like the way you look? If you want to change the way you look because of your husband well that's just the most stupidest thing Ive heard. Your husband new what you looked like when he married you right, so what the hell is his problem.Don't change for anyone, you are who you are, your husband obviously has a green eyed monster problem! ,
2006-07-30 08:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel that you are beautiful inside as well as out?
Sounds like your husband is insecure with him self and that is something that he is going to have to work on, that has nothing to do with you, unless you doing something to make him feel insecure. Tell him he should be proud not jealous.
2006-07-30 08:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad for your husband nothing wrong with being hot.Would you rather be cold.Sounds like your husband is
2006-07-30 08:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by redanimalmuppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the must be out of his damn mind not liking you, if you said what you are because most men are looking for a hot girl and he doesn't like you.make him feel jealous then he will appreciate your hotness.
2006-07-30 08:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st thing: get a cold bath or shower and then you talk to husband
2006-07-30 08:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by blommekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope in the refrigerator
2006-07-30 08:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by malroymck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like God blessed you be happy and learn to like yourself the inside, your soul..
2006-07-30 08:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by benitasuewatson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would some one give that person a cold drink
2006-07-30 10:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and come live with me !
I'm sure I could learn to cope with it.
2006-07-30 08:32:02 · answer #11 · answered by stoutseun69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋