"loving is'nt a fault and it don't happen by seeing any age i love my sir very much and it is not an attraction"
"I love computer sir of our school, he is unmarried and 13-14 years older than me. he don't know my feelings about him.I may leave this school this year.What should i do, will i propose him as it is not just an attraction and i can't live without him,it is impossible for me to forget him." so PLZ take this matter seriously and answer me as i am fully depressed .I am 16 years old girl"
2006-07-30 01:21:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"I love him very much and plz help me to gain him. plz say me how to propose him"
2006-07-30 02:07:25 · update #1
If you are under 18 and/or still in school, a relationship with him might seriously jeopardize his job. If you care about him, you might want to consider keeping these feelings to yourself.
2006-07-30 01:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is so cool!!!!! However I have found that age matters not in the short term but in the long term. You will have differences in tastes of things you would like to do. And at 16 you need to try and get through college before having children so if some thing happens to you husband you can support your self and any children. Enjoy being in love but remember to be logical not just passionate.
2006-07-30 08:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by David W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ... it happens a lot that younger people fall for older people, especially teachers, because they are kind, caring, wise ... but they are teachers and that's what they do, they care about you and understand you, because and only because he is educating you. He wants you to feel comfortable, so that you should feel open to come for questions.. it's just about education.
You are 16 yrs old, you seem to be wise, caring and sensitive. Guys like that, and ... i know it will take time for you to put him in the side ... but eventually you will be happy, because you will find somebody that shares your interests, and has a good sense of humor and likes to .... do the things you like to do..
That teacher is not in your agegroup, he has different interests, he might be dating somebody his age...
Put in in the side, and focus on the things you like to do ... take your mind off him ... and then if you go on holidays to the beach or on family outings look out for someone that attracts you ...
Try not to be depressed, the best thing is to take your mind of things, go biking or anything that easy makes you float away ...
2006-07-30 08:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Shiry Madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you must declare ur feelings. then bombard him with all the love and affection and flowers and chocolates he can ever have. idk tho ive never loved a teacher.
2006-07-30 08:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋