I am a military man serving in the war who is around other military men and I am just wanting to do things to them.
2006-07-30 00:59:15 · 15 answers · asked by John D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If the feeling is mutual, then that's alright. You need to be very discreet. I was in the Army for six years. I met other gay guys. We were very careful and never had any problems.
2006-07-30 01:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with wanting another military man. There is, however, something wrong (according to the Department of Defense) with same-sex sexual relations while you are still in the military. "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" does not excuse military regulations, which still consider it a criminal act for which you can be discliplined, up to an including dishonorable discharge.
You say you want to do things to them - I hope you mean with them. Sex should be consensual, even if it's just one military buddy doing another military buddy a favor! ;-)
There are a number of things you can do. I cannot in clear conscience advise that you pursue one of these men. Your pursuit could be successful, but it could just as likely lead to serious consequences you may not wish to deal with. That is a choice you must make for yourself. Meanwhile there are numerous resources available for those of you who are in the service of our country. I suggest the following:
http://www.sldn.org/templates/press/record.html?section=5&record=882
Good luck!
2006-07-30 09:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A military man who wants a military woman, is that OK.
Tammi Dee
2006-07-30 08:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is kinda wrong. If the military man only 'likes' the other guy, there won't be any wrong with that. if the case involves 'wanting', it is another story. I believe in two-way relationships.
2006-07-30 08:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by febri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things "to" them?
Doesn't sound like respectful, caring relationship to me. You may not be gay, but rather violently agressive. Sorry to say if you see a military shrink they'll probably discharge you, but you need help buddy.
2006-07-30 08:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong at all if they are also gay. Be carefull not to be caught so you're not thrown out of the military
2006-07-30 13:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you to admit this. I think everyone has the right to say what they are feeling. No I don't think it is wrong at all.
Signed Concerned Citizen
2006-07-30 18:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sooooo dangerous...u know the military is full of homophobic ppl...be careful....i dont have to tell you about friendly fire...i wouldnt act on these feelings...u may wind up dead
2006-07-30 08:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! That's where my best bud found alot of willing participants...especially in night watch duty sheds.
2006-07-30 08:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful You know don't ask don't tell. That is the way my uncle met his life partner.
2006-07-30 09:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by caitie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋