Does there is need of physical intimacy before marriage for continuing relationship with my boy friend?
2006-07-30 00:56:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In my opinion you should marry a like minded person. A person who respects you and your values.
Since you have asked this question ... I believe your value system is against this but your mind is feared of losing that guy.
You know the situations best. The man who truly loves you will understand you are not ready for it before marriage and he will respect it (assuming he also carries same societal values)
If you can't avoid the 'physical intimacy' for whatever reasons... keep few things pending... privileges to be available only after marriage (I hope my message is clear)
Relationships are delicate. In case of lover's relationship there are two needs emotional and biological. Both the needs have to fulfilled in order to sustain the relationship (Before or after the marriage) You will have to use tact in order to push your partner's biological need to a time after you marry him.
Cheers
Saurabh
2006-07-30 01:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by Saurabh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For anyone that understands what drives the human male, yes! If anyone answers that with a no, then they are either a woman, or a repressed religious nut. Males are driven by their sexual need, which goes back to when humanity started. I'm not going to go into the whole specifics. Study psychology 101 and you'll find out what I'm talking about. A guy can try to overcome this, but it will just lead to repressed feelings and hidden desires.
2006-07-30 01:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. If your b/f is pressurising you into getting more "physical" with him, and you are uncomfortable with this, then tell him so.
Any chap worthy of you and who thinks you are more than just a "score" will listen and understand.
If he still doesn't stop pestering you for sex, give him the boot. He's only with you for the roll in this case!
If you do want to get cosier, then suggest you catch up on your sex education before you continue. And definitely, MOST DEFINITELY, use a condom every time - its not only pregnancy you must bear in mind!
2006-07-30 01:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by badaasaab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sufficient is sufficient! you're weaving an quite tangled cyber web. in basic terms enable the chips fall the place they could. in case you have been giving him severe alerts which you're into him and he nevertheless hasn't asked you out lower back he's in all risk over it. Sorry babe
2016-10-08 11:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by milak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should...lol, u wouldn't buy a car without test driving it would you? lol what if your not saticified or he has a REALLY small pp and your a size queen,,,u better take it for a spin before u sign the papers
2006-07-30 01:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you have to do what you are comfortable with. You don't "have" to do anything. Remeber you are you and he is him. He needs to respect your feelings if you want to be physical then be safe and do it... If you don't want to then don't do it.
Also if you are young its better just to wait, trust me.
2006-07-30 01:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessary
u marry d guy who loves u not d guy who ONLY WANTS TO F.U.C.K u
its not necessary----at all
1st fall in love wid him if u dont know him much
but still if u cant control ur zip then go for it
2006-07-30 01:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? You have sex when you feel comfortable. If he loves you, he won't push. Sex is meant for children. if you are ready, and responsible go ahead
2006-07-30 01:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to spark the relationship, yes.
2006-07-30 01:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by allan989ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't have to have vaginal sex with him but at least let him do you anally.
2006-07-30 00:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋