It has been a week since we broke up and I cant seem to forget him.He has moved on and started dating some other girl and it breaks my heart to see them together.I try to look normal and act as if I have forgotten about him but inside I really want him to hold me the way he used to and kiss me soooo gently.Please help, I dont know what to do.I feel as if my life is over.
2006-07-30 00:44:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK. You are not going to die for this. If he has move on just after a week he really didn't love you as you tough. And dear give yourself time to heal all those wounds, it will take time trust me. But in the mean time go out with your friends, read the Bible is a good way to clear your mind and feel better. Try not to think about that to much keep yourself busy and you will see that someday the right one will come for you.
2006-07-30 00:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by YO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, It has only been a week of course you are going to still think about him my last breakup it took me 2 years. It hurt me to see them with someone elseBut what did I do I kept myself occupied. I enrolled in school got a degree got an excellent job now I am married been married for 8 years now now my ex is calling me back. I tell him sorry but I am where I want to be and I wouldnt change it for the world.. So you see honey the best REVENGE IS SUCCESS. Because another person doesnt want to see you do better than he is... And I wouldnt go back if you paid me.. THINGS HAPPEN FOR REASONS AND IT IS A REASON WHY? You 2 broke up leave it at that and move on with your life it is going to hurt sweety. Yes It is!!!!! But try doing different things to help you get through this.
2006-07-30 01:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 11:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by milak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl,i know how youre feeling.Its sad and its actually devastating.The only way to look at this now is now to think that your life is over but to jsut calm down adn think about him.If it makes you cry,so it be but the fact is your thoughts about him will help you to relax.The hugs and the kisses will hurt without them but you have to understand that if your boy has got the guts to leave you and date another girl the week he broke up with you,he doesnt love you,he was just using you.I know how sad it is to be used by people for love,i have gone through it myself.I have to tell you before hand that because you love him so much,you will never think abou tanother guy nomatter how hot they are cause your heart is scared for life.Im so sorry to tell it to you this openly but thats what is going to happen.DO also remember that if you give yourself up to him that easily,you are actually selling youre dignity.I know it may not seem big at all when you love a person that much but it is when the person doesnt love you back.Girl, dont go back to him nomatter what happens,nomatter however desprate you are for his kisses and huges. Although this may seem ridicolous to do within such a hard time but you have to find someone who really apreciated the love you have for them.If you have persisting problems or need someone to speak to girl,im always there to help you out with it.
2006-07-30 01:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by 50 cent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can't forget him now but you CAN if you try the best to forget him soon !
If I were you, I 'll make my self busy and start organising and arranging a new activity to occupy my time.
If before this you are too busy to go to the Gym, now start going to the gym as often as you can. Shape up your body and get fit!!
Start meeting up with your friends and making new friends. Arrange an activities with them like playing tennis, doing art class, painting class, cooking class, movies, inviting them for dinner and many more to think....
You can think of makeover too if that can make you happy. Sometimes a slight changes in our style and appealing can boost our self confident ! Go to the hair saloon, get new hair cut and change your hair color. Change your make up style and buy dress you like and enjoy it. Believe me, you will be happy to see a new you ..
Take away what ever things belong to him or anything which can remind you about him.
With this new positive changes, and activities I'm sure you will never have enough time to think or remember about him. Even if suddenly you remember him, just try to think the bad side of him and how fast he can forget you by dating a new girl....
All that I'll do if I were you ..
Try that.. Be positive, Best of luck and i know you can do !
2006-07-30 02:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by shariemaidin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r crazy .....crazy about a guy who is still happy without you if he really loved you he would never go away with other girls com on girl dont mess up your life think forward life is just not all about boyfriend and girlfriend find your dreams what you want to be what you are what you have beside beuty or looks.......
First be yourself then youll find many guys who would like you to be their girlfriend and you can choose the suitable one and one more thing............... keep the sweet memories aside which hurt you once you get prominent in your career and life theres yet lot to come...
cheer up pls
2006-07-30 00:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by reems g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I'm not privy as to the reason why you broke with your boyfriend. What i can say is this. It is natural of you to feel this way towards him as you did care about him.
It is easy for people to say you have to move on as this will take some time, the length of time will depend on you. If you are lucky to have genuine friends and family, they can be a source of help and healing.
You a lone will know what to do as you both are privy as to the reason why you broke up in the first place. It will be unwise for people who don't know the reason why you broke up to tell you what to do.
2006-07-30 01:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really simple- do stuff that will keep your mind off him. start off by spending more time with family and friends, and doing stuff u never had time to do when u were busy. catch up on work, pick up new hobbies.... find new stuff to do, with friends.
dont hang out where u know he will be, cuz that will make u really sad and think of him 24/7. go explorin and find new haunts. flirt with cute guys u meet... anything to keep ur mind off him. put away all the stuff he gave u, pix of the 2 of u together, everything for a while. u dont need to torture urself by lookin at things that make u think of him. basically do stuff that u have never tried, and make new friends, and have a blast. enjoy ur freedom- go to a spa for a day and just enjoy!! u'll get over him soon enough. and who knows, u mite meet sum1 really nice while doin new stuff!
2006-07-30 01:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by vanilla fudge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep fakin' it 'til you make it. Choose something you're really interested in and every time you find yourself thinking about him, think about that instead. Remember that he's obviously not wasting any time crying over you. Build yourself a life NOT based on a bf and when you're busy and happy with yourself, some great guy will come along and you will wonder what you ever saw in Mr. Wonderful.
2006-07-30 00:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by R. F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is definitely not over only evolving into another phase. If he has moved on then so must you, don't waste too much time wondering "what if?" Life is too short for that and you will miss the oportunities that you will be given. Avoid seeing him with his new love, that is not fair on yourself. Be kind to yourself and most of all love yourself and everything will turn out ok......
2006-07-30 00:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by argydora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋