2006-07-30 00:07:28 · 9 answers · asked by pikin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Infidelity is the destroyer of love. It should not be tolerated in any meaningful relationship. People who cheat on a promised lover are pathetic little people. Cheating inside a marriage is much worst. Infidelity is a sure sign of weakness. You will find it hard to trust the cheating partner again.
The way you can cope is to end the relationship with the cheating partner immediately and then re-evaluate your needs. Heal yourself before you get back with a repentant cheater or another lover. This may take months or years. If someone you love has cheated on you then you are going to be a mess if true love existed for you.
If you are the cheating kind then you should know that you are not worthy of being in a relationship. You are foolish and your ways will only bring hurt and misery to those who are trying to love you.
"Scum of the Earth"...try that name on for size because it fits you well. What goes around, eventually comes around! Hurting the one that you are suppose to love should be a highly punishable crime. Normally peaceful people will kill over this issue!
2006-07-30 00:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Infidelity is wrong and there's no excuse or explanation
to defend it. It would be and should be the last straw
in a marriage. I have had friends in this situation. This
is what I've told them and to anyone in an infidelity
situation. Don't cope with it. Give them their walking papers.
2006-07-30 09:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by caroline j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't "cope." Confront. It isn't easy, but it can make the situation clear. Say "You did such and such. You betrayed me. Why?" Then make the consequences of the betrayal clear. What do you feel and what are you going to do? Leave?
If you feel too emotional to say what is on your mind, put it in writing.
2006-07-30 07:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by expatturk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still going at 53
2006-07-30 07:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by scrambledmolecues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read some articles on this site on how to catch a cheating lover
2006-07-30 07:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you be a little more spicific?
2006-07-30 07:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by knowitall4now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, 2pts!
2006-07-30 07:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-30 14:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by lavendergrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why waste ur time???
2006-07-30 07:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋