Who's wrong . Or are they both ?

Question

My girl , my friend and his girl and me are at a bar. The girls want to leave. guys dont. my girl tells my friend "you have to go home..your girl wants to go home.let's go" (in a a little angry tone) My friend says. : I am not your baby sitter. Dont tell me when to go home. " Later they appologised to each other. but I still feel kind of in the middle of the hole thing.

What your oppinion

Answer 1

if they wanted to go and you guys did'nt then thats their problem they should have gone home together made out and you two guys could have picked up. dont feel in the middle thats nuts its over now forget it babe.

Answer 2

Did you have a DD or were all of you drinking? The safest bur is to let the DD decide when it's time to leave or if your all such good friends be kind to each other and leave when someone else is. You can always just leave someone at the bar, just make sure he doesn't have car keys.

Answer 3

Just because they wanted to leave doesn't make them right. You went there together so leave when you're all ready...not when the girls are ready.

Guys seem to be under pressure to capitulate to girls out of some modern sense of social obligation to them...or because they're afraid of pissing their gf's off and missing out on sex. It's kinda like men have been getting socially castrated over the last 30 years.

Never let yourself get pushed around. Relationships are not 1-way streets.

Answer 4

Just leave it at that. If they both apologised there is nothing you can do about it. The friendship will be a bit ackward at first but he'll get over it. the question is will your girl get over it?

Answer 5

the both.They are both responsible for their actions and you are not in the middle.But you two should have listened to your girlfriends and leave when they wanted to.