married and lonely?

Question

why am i felling lonely and have been married for 12 years...some body please help

Answer 1

I have been married for over 7 years and I get lonely too. Have you tried to talk to your spouse about why you feel this way? Sometimes we depend on our spouses too much for our personal fulfillment and maybe it is healthy to develop other interests and make friends so that you don't feel so alone. This way you have more to bring to the relationship with your wife. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

I am married and I sometimes feel lonely. I think that everyone feels lonely sometimes even when they are surrounded by other people. I think that loneliness in a marriage is a result of lack of communication. Maybe your loved one found a new hobby or a new friend and is spending less time at home, that can make you feel lonely, left out, even jealous of her new found freedom. I would suggest taking time out to reflect on what it is you want to do, take up a new hobby or take a class. Maybe what you need is a good sit down convo with your wife and it will help bring you closer together. What I have realized is that sometimes its okay to feel lonely when you are married because it makes it that much better when you are together. It makes you appreciate them. Talk to your wife, who knows maybe she feels lonely too!!

Answer 3

Its not uncommon to feel lonely at times, even in a relationship. Since you mentioned how long you have been married and not any problems, I would say that you are more bored than possibly lonely. You need to speak to your mate about these feelings and go from there. Good luck

Answer 4

This is a normal occurrence. Need to freshen up your marriage, talk it over with the spouse and together see how both of you can improve the marriage, I am sure the spouse is having the same feelings, talk it over, go the places that you both liked after you first got married, Discuss sex openly and together find ways to spice up your sex lives.
Just remember communication is the key to any relationship

Answer 5

I'm in the same position as you, its so hard to fix this problem, i think first we have to determine if you still love your husband or not anymore, if you do then its time to re-kindle the romance that my friend you have to work out between you too, if you have fallen out of love with your husband as i have then its just finding the courage to leave and start all over again, easier said then done, i know because i am still here, if your husband is a selfish and blind as mine then he doesn't even realise whats going on, don't let it drag on it just gets harder do something about it now, good luck to you girl.

Answer 6

Start doing the work U like and enjoy all the day.
Try to be happy with what U have.
Always have the contact with others.
Do some dhyana and make U the confident person

Answer 7

Even with my 4 kids I feel alone sometimes~ My husband can be sitting inches away and I feel the same way..we've been together a total of 5 yrs...I guess it's just something we go through once in awhile..good luck...

Answer 8

Plan a second honeymoon and renew your lust///er I mean love! I know the feeling. You need to tell your wife how much you miss her and tell her you have a crush on her. Are you sleeping in the nude. That usually cures loneliness. That and communication.

Answer 9

maybe you have made your marriage into a routine? work, come home, go to sleep kind of thing? Remember the things that made you fall in love with your significant other, and try doing the things you did for him/her to fall in love with you. Spice up your relationship, do something different, make him/her fall in love with you again : ) good luck.

Answer 10

U R IN LOVE WITH AN ANOTHER WOMEN SO U R UNHAPPY WITH UR WIFE