The child comes first~ If you focus on the child's needs and wants..each day SHOULD get easier to face...Don't keep the child from the other parent...TRY TO PARENT TOGETHER..even if you aren't together anymore!I I know that is sometimes easier said than done!
My husband and his ex (me and my ex for that matter..) DON'T PARENT together...he hasn't seen his children in over 5 yrs cause she won't let them cause he has RE-married and had 2 other children w/me! She's bitter and alone w/ these children..and we KNOW that is messing up their minds w/ the crap she tells them! My ex and I ~ although we don't agree on ANYTHING STILL~ don't parent together....my children have a relationship with both of us...the only time HE asks for ANY suggestions..is when he can't deal with our teenage daughter!
TIme heals all wounds...that's how it goes..things that are good don't end...so it's clear that ending that was a good thing..only better things to come..good luck in everything and hug you baby...they don't stay little forever! :)
2006-07-29 23:39:28
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answered by just me 4
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I don't think you can get over it sometimes but you have to move on.If you have a 2 year old child you can never lose that.Anyone can find someone else but there is always that feeling of like missing what you had.You can't bring those feelings to a new relationship though.It's hard when children are involved.You have to find a way to not necessarily get over it but you have to go on.Have to keep going eventually that person is going to move on. You have too also.I been through it too.You can hold on to the memories but you have to let go of him or her.
2006-07-30 06:32:42
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answered by redanimalmuppet 3
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you dont for u wont ever and except that and move foward knowing u were given a beautiful child by this other for a reason and remember the good times and learn from the bad.
if ur in love u both will grow and not grow apart even if not in love the same way a friendship may bloom even stronger which is good to show ur child things may change but we adjust the way we choose too.
gl
2006-07-30 06:49:03
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answered by Mind GameZ 2
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With time and hope, love. That is hard. Just look forward to your healed future and don't look back. Love will come again and be sweeter than before. Chin up! {{{hugs}}}} Things'll get better, I promise. KNOW THAT there is someone out there made just for you and that one wasn't it. It was just training of what's to come: the BEST is yet to come, if you just B E L I E V E!
Peace and love,
~Sleek
2006-07-30 06:21:49
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answered by Sleek 7
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once you have sex with someone your souls intertwine. don't focus on getting over him. That is a process that only time can heal. Instead, date other people and get to know them. Try to keep busy, because loneliness will create heartache. Good luck.
2006-07-30 06:24:06
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answered by sun 1
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best advice i ever got was- 'nothing gets you through the last one like the next one'
just don't exploit anyone for your rebound.
2006-07-30 06:20:06
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answered by sleepingtao 2
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