friendship problem??????help me . pls read the ques below it?

Question

i had a i'd a bst frnd 2-3 yrs ago.but i didn't find her as helpful as best frnds normally are.frst i ignored this negativity of her but as time passed she turned out to be more n more neglecting.i tried to make her realise many a times but aftr 5-6 days she again cntinued with hr same behaviour.i was fed up of all this and decided to break my frndshp with her n also i did it.but again aftr 2-3 days she pleased me to be her friend.i forgave her for that period of time but initially she wasn't my frnd any more.A time came when i strongly needed her n this time also instd of helping me she hurted me.I'd always helped her when she needed but she never had such attitude.She always mak fun of evryone.She did the same evn at the time when i nded a spport emotnally.And now i've brken my frndship with her permnntly.i'm lonely aftr this incident coz i'm in such a place where i don't kno anyone.i tried to make frnds but i don't think they r good enuf to b mad frnd.i'm very lonely.wut shud i do?

Answer 1

I am sorry your friend let you down, and i know it really hurts,
I think your friend is being childish and selfish,, if she was a ""good , good" FRIEND before, and now she is not, than she was more of a friend of convience, and that sucks,
I know you are lonely, and want a special friend, but you must learn it takes, time,
You can not just make friends with someone and after a week or two, think they are my new best friend,, or even want that,
it has to happen naturally (I KNOW IT IS NOT A ROMANCE) but it has the same guidelines,
as hard as it is,, and i do not know if you will take this advice seriously,, but please don't rush in to or out of any friendships, with the hope that they will be your dearest, pal, you can get hurt, let down mislead, used, and betrayed,
not even intentional, some people have friends for different reasons,
some to be close like sisters or brothers, some just to have another person to show up places with, or borrow clothes, or whatever, and they do not necessarily have feelings for you,, and they can leave you, when they have something better to do, or just not be there emotionally.. and you will be very lost,

so please get to know your new friend, take it slow, don't tell all your deep secrets, and needs too soon, don't trust anyonw with your feelings, not for a while, just understand that you may think of a friendship for fullfilling lyour needs, but your needs may be different from your friends,,,

good luck..

Answer 2

The kind of friendship you are looking for is not easy to find but it is existing in our life. I had the same problem few years ago for some time i thought i can live with closed heart and on my own and will keep colleages and class mates for shallow relations only however loneliness was always my good dear friend.
do not close your heart and think that no one is good enough for you and your real friendship you provide to ppl you meet. maybe you have chosed the wrong person but this is not the only person you will meet.
Sometimes you find persons accidently on your way, who smile to you with no reason, with who you get along so fast and you dont know why. It is just that both of you have the same matching chemistry that will make you interesed to support and help whenever you need each other. This chemistry means that your friend thinks abt friendship and friendship concepts like you. so as much as you support, your friend will and maybe more.
good luck.

Answer 3

Almost the same has happened to me with my best friend. Now .... I ignore her. And a lot actuelly.Do you know any guy. It's much more easier to have a friendship with a guy. Listen to me. That's what I do. Actuelly all my holidays I've just writen to three of my friends(boys). But just friendship ok. Try to not see them in an other way ok? Understand me? That's what I do. And I feel much more,much more comfortable. Cause my other friends loved me only for interest and unfortunately I understood this too late.
What can you do. Women are bed , who don't know this. If you don't know boys to be your friend than rest at first and when you think you're ready to create a new friendship be careful, don't show your self immediately , know as much as you can this X friend and than decide what to do with it. Ok? That's what I can say to you honey. Hope this helps you!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Sounds to me like she is just messing you around or she is not understanding your sensitivity with situations. Best friends are the ones who understand us and are comfortable to be around. Don't go looking for a best friend, they come into our lives by chance.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

find a new friend..........she's still your friend but not a close friend.........she jsut your friend........find someone who match your personality..............and interest