for ex:some couple plan that they shud not hav baby for this many months/yrs??
likewise for how many months/yrs u think u shud be free from child birth??
am asking this question becos.. some says its not recomended to plan for many yrs to birth a baby.. is that so??
2006-07-29 22:53:16 · 10 answers · asked by i.luv.anklets 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think just let nature takes it course.
Sometimes when U wanted a baby, U just couldn't.
2006-07-30 01:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky♣Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think couples should wait at least a year so that they can enjoy time with it just being the 2 of them. They're just learning how to live with other. I think they should learn this before a baby comes along and is there for the next 18 years. They need alone time.
2006-07-29 22:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends...
Well first af all - child needs home and full support from parrents. If parrents cannt give child all the support needed still, they wait until they can.
What is more, some couples get married very young (18-20 years old). And naturally woman or man is still not mature enough.
have you heard, that womans body gets ready to have a baby when she is 25? Untill then body only prepares for such gift.
So better to have a baby when you are prepared. Not only physically, but mentaly also.
2006-07-29 23:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by menulka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking, "After you get married, how long should you wait to have a baby?" ...
It helps if you save up a bit of money first. When you don't have kids, it's easier for both of you to work and build up some savings. Raising a kid is EX-PEN-SIVE!!!
On the other hand, it's harder if you wait until after you're 30 to have kids. Not only is there a greater risk of birth defects, but it's harder to deal with a teenager when you're 45 than if you're 35.
Talk it over with your partner. Depending on your age, I would say wait a couple of years so you can get your finances in shape. (One important note: stay out of debt! Credit cards will kill you!)
Good luck to both of you!
2006-07-29 23:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by jackalanhyde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It good to plan baby and get ready and preppier his room ,Education.etc. in advance,but not to take to long,Because when you take too long age factor is also coming,older you get may be you can have problem to have baby and if you have early baby they get grown up your early age and you can control them in better way.
2006-07-29 23:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i would think the couple would want a few years to themselves before having a kid. that might just be me though. kids are HUGE responibilities that will continue, most likely, through the rest of their lives.
2006-07-29 22:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats all up to the individual couples. Whatever they feel is right for them
2006-07-29 22:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by cinnaamon_kiss_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We waited for several years, just enjoying our time together. Hey, in these times with all its possibilities it is YOUR choice, don't let anybody talk you into anything else.
2006-07-29 22:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Gungnir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a couple should do what they is feel is right for them.
2006-07-30 00:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by SeeNoEvil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had three at the begining of my marrage
2006-07-29 22:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond Freak :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋