All of my friends come to me for advice, and I alwasy give it. And in return I can confide in them. But usually I enjoy listening and hearing about everything and then giving them advice. Lately I've had problems though. I wish I had someone to talk to that would actually think about it. And also I have a friend thats a girl that likes my best guy friend, who is dating my other friend thats a girl. But the couple will most likely break up soon. I dont think my guy friend and my other girl friend dating would be the best thing, plus its a huge blow on me. But I'm still gonna be asked for help and adivice. And I wann tell one of my close friends about her liking him, but I can't cuz their all involved! plz help.
2006-07-29 22:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I see, well first of all you must know what a great friend you are to be willing listen to your friends problems, but be sure they are doing the same to you. If your bothered about your friend liking your guy friend try to understand what is making you so worried? do you like your guy friend? do you think she will use him only? are you jealous? bear with me they are hard to admit but when you answer yourself these stuff you'll start to see things clearly. If your sure your guy friend will break up, tell him to get a break from dating girls for a while,before he might end up hurt. if you really are so worried dont tell your girl-friends tell him personally, no matter how courage you have to get.
2006-07-29 22:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always the advice giver too. I don't have a solution except that you should be honest but try to not hurt other people's feelings. I had a crush on my best guy friend and gave him advice all the time on how to get a girl or do nice things for his girl friend. I wish I had just told him I liked him.
2006-07-29 22:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't feel obligated to do anything if you don't want to. If your friends who are involved come to you then state that it is a delicate situation and you don't want to get involved. If anything the friends should respect whatever relationships happening and not attempt to take anybody's partner away. And just tell them that you are going through some things right now and need to deal with them. Good luck.
2006-07-29 22:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The final 3 and then some. That first one does not sound like me in any respect. i do no longer want their advice, ever! LOL. -the only that is often giving advice -the "comforting" one -the joker
2016-10-01 06:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, thats the same with me, when any of my friends need help they come running to me, and now, im cought inbetween to fights between a few of my good friends, all you have to do is talk to them about it, or you could stop being friends with one of them, i know its mean, but i guess the best choice is to talk to them, my situation was a little dif. though 2 of the friends in the fight i didnt really like, i was just there friend when they needed someone to talk to,
2006-07-29 22:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Leesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait until the couple breaks up, then advice your (girl) friend to make the move. let them decide what they'll do next. and don't worry, you'll still be the best friend ever.
2006-07-29 22:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the advice giver too...i guess you should wait and see what happens
2006-07-29 22:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by chiiki_andreiita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not the only one, everyone comes to me for that and to tell me their problems
2006-07-29 22:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by mattman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋