she say she will still be my friend but nothing more and she told me she called her ex from many years ago and that they plan to spend time together but she knows they'l never have what we had
2006-07-29 21:45:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouln't take you back, let alone be friends
2006-07-29 21:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to win her back.
BUT... she will *always* mistrust you. She will always doubt you. There will always be the thought that any time you go out that you are going out to be with another person to cheat on her. It's perfectly natural. She won't be able to help to feel that way.
It will annoy you and her, after awhile.
She will be reminded of her feeling of being betrayed and you will hate being mistrusted. It will never be like it was.
You sit in a nice chair and it flips you over.. you are never quite comfortable or secure as you once were sitting in it.
It's a hard lesson to learn. There are many flavors of love in the world. You will find another.
2006-07-30 04:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like her mind is made up...But, as long as you can still be friends maybe you can prove to her after a while that you are trustworthy and it was a huge mistake. (Which I hope it was.)
But it depends on the girl...If shes the kind of girl that thinks everyone makes mistakes then maybe you have a chance to get her back...Show her how much you care about her...but with even that, there's no guarentee's to anything...and that's what sucks.
2006-07-30 04:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Emily B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she is just telling lies about her ex just to make you jealous and to let you feel what she feels when she found you cheating on her. maybe the best way to do is talk to her and ask if she could give you a chance but if she refuse court her and show her how important she is to you
2006-07-30 04:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Cecille D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay her friend. Don't chase her and don't try to get her back. maybe in like a year something could respark. but learn from the lesson. DONT CHEAT
2006-07-30 04:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Witchy_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mark it up as a lesson learned. Next time you gotta show some loyalty, bro.
2006-07-30 04:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by theenormusnorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky she allows you in her life at all.
Your selfish if you cheat and still want your girlfriend to be yours.
Be happy with your current situation and pray she stupid enough to go back to you in time.
2006-07-30 04:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she wont be back to you coz you screw up , before you cheated you should know that woman never forgive or forget that kind of things , so dont spect her to be back to you , Cheater in the End loss what they have , in your case your GF.
2006-07-30 04:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by Dayan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the facts, you are a loser. If you to try to chase after her you are an even bigger loser. Learn from your mistakes.
2006-07-30 04:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Not Tellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well show her what she is missing and then after that just let her know that you feeling are strong for her and that you would like another chance.
2006-07-30 04:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by YouNyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋