Is it good to like a married although she is married and has chidrens but in sense u are ready to wait for her untill she get single i mean u donot create any problem to her preset family life rather u are waiting for her insense she love u also
2006-07-29 21:27:10 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thank u friend i accpet your answer she is married to a person who is elder more than 20 years anything might happne all i want to say is can i wait for her untill she get widow i love her she also love me
2006-07-29 21:38:00 · update #1
My intension is not to break her family life all i want to see her happy nothing eles
2006-07-29 21:39:54 · update #2
i am ready to accpet her chidrens honestly. i have no problem to do that
2006-07-29 21:40:37 · update #3
i am ready to accpet her chidrens honestly. i have no problem to do that
2006-07-29 21:40:38 · update #4
Falling in love with a married person is asking to get your heart broken. Move on, and find someone who is free to love you back.
2006-07-29 21:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer probably won't be any different from what you have heard so far. I think that what you are doing is crazy, you may have a long wait and trust me if it does happen that shew breaks free from Marriage, she will not want anything else.
I can't see that you would want her to be honest, married women are the forbidden fruit and once they have them they dont want them anymore. I have seen it so many times, people leaving their married partners for someone else, been promised the world and yet months into a new life he gets cold feet and doesn't want it anymore.
Please don't tell me that you are the exception because I dont believe a word of it. You have probably already destroyed what little was left and the fact that she has children with him will make it even harder. You will take her on, the children on her failiure to remain married, the divorce proceedings, the stress of it all
Come on now have a serious think about this because thats what will happen..
2006-07-30 05:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer is going to be frank. Some women are willing to cheat with a man like you because like you said you wont cause problems for her. So how long do you think you will be waiting? She has her family and you? You are going to end up with your heartbroken because honestly chances are she will never leave her husband and if she did she would not run to you. This woman really wants the single life and wouldn't jump out of one marriage into another most likely. You are probably working over time trying to prove to her that you are better than her husband and she is loving every bit of the attention. Give your love to someone who isn't going home to someone else.
2006-07-30 04:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by krichard70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could be a really bad idea, all the other problems of age and children aside, you may not know if she will ever leave her husband, waiting for a while I get but until she is a widow, is wasting your entire life.
And since you are talking of her being the widow, how do you know she wouldn't die first, that unless you have inside info that she will soon be a widow?
You could wait if she is going to leave her husband for you because they are unhappy, but not until he dies.
2006-08-03 00:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by christie_is_the_name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad loving a married women, if she is single and if she has chances to get divorce and if she wishes to leave her husband and start a new life with you that nothing is wrong, on the other side u r trying to make that person happy and giving her love and new life by accepting her childrens if she is not happy with her husband or if her husband is not keeping her happy i wish you best of luck.
2006-07-30 06:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck-I'm in the same boat, I'm in love wtih a guy who's also married with kids, but he doesn't feel the same way. Even though I haven't met then-his kids are like my own, I worry when he tells me they're sick and would love to spend time with them. But like u that would cause a riff in his marriage and I couldn't handle bein the cause of his marriage to disintegrate. If u truly love this girl then wait. But there are not guarantees in life!
You may die before her husband *wink!
2006-08-01 15:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you wait that long ?
The thing is that things might change and you could have been waiting for the wrong person she might not want you when the time comes its not as if she will hook up with you as soon as her husband has gone.
If i was you i would get on with your own life date and have fun if its meant to be you and this woman will get it together no matter what.
2006-07-30 05:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes thats fine you no she is married and told her your willing to wait........but I think you will end up longing for her so much the pain will be so hard you will change your mind! If you have made a promise try to stick with it,I know it will be just as hard for her she is stuck in with a person she doesnt really want while thinking of you its hard honest!
2006-07-30 04:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not Ok , specially if she is happily married , its difficult to break a relationship with the husband specially if she has children , Look for a single person there is too many in this World dont wait for her it may take forever and you will stay there waiting.
2006-07-30 04:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by Dayan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weak+Desparate=You
2006-07-30 06:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by B-Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋