Have you ever broken someone's heart?

Question

I did when i broke up a 17 year relationship..

Answer 1

Yes, I have. When I was 21 I met a guy through a friend's boyfriend, we'll call him Kevin. Kevin was very sweet, tenderhearted, thoughtful, funny, and adventurous. Unfortunately he was born with some problems which left him unhandsome (think Goonies), unintelligent, and a bit of a dweeb. Like I said he was very nice but wasn't able to hold a good conversation for very long. I was spending time with my friend and her guy who happened to be Kevin's best friend at the time. He developed a huge crush and me and started pursuing me. I just did not have the heart to tell him I wasn't interested. I knew he had never had a girl before and he was trying to hard to get me to like him. I gave in thinking I could help "suave" him up, teach him about girls, help him with his clothes, and generally make him a chick magnet then send him off to look for a real love.

IT BACKFIRED, while helping him out he fell in love. His father died, his sister had a baby, his mother was diagnosed with an illness all while we were seeing each other. When he looked at me with big green eyes and told me he loved me I couldn't help but say I loved him too. I thought him being young things would work themselves out. In the end I broke his heart, which I will forever regret.

Moral of the story; don't date someone because you don't want to hurt them by saying no. You only end up hurting them worse in the end.

Answer 2

I've been in two relationships where the girl totally felt a connection, but I felt I couldn't get any support from them when I was having hard times so I broke their hearts. They hate me to this day

Answer 3

Yes, I broke off a 12 year relationship for another guy, my EX was hurt bad, and stupid me, after 2 years with the new guy, he's now TOTALLY breaking my heart, BAD.

Answer 4

17 Years? I'm sorry to hear that. Yes I have; though, I've never expirenced a relationship of that long. But it's bound to happen. It's one of the dangers of being in a relationship but you get over it eventually.

Answer 5

by some ability so a strategies, i've got not had my coronary heart broken, i've got continually executed the midsection breaking...that's such as you suggested each so often worse for me reason I also have a tendency to experience mega to blame and stuff....my final boyfriend thoroughly fell aside as quickly as I broke up with him, he did no longer wanna enable me pass, so as that became troublesome to handle.... :)

Answer 6

Nope. But I have had my heart shattered into millions of bits:)

I have only been on the other side of the fence...and considering what I went through, I would never like to break anyone's heart.

Answer 7

Yep. I don't really feel bad about it, he was extremely dependent, but he was also too dominating. I felt that it was cramping my style so I rudely ended it. He left a voice mail in a voice that sounded like he was going to cry and I almost busted out laughing in the fast food place I was in.

Answer 8

ROFLMAO !! Are you insane. 17 yr relationship ? I can brake hearts by simply ignoring a chica . Ha Ha. Women lose their minds when I ignore them. 17 yrs!!! Ha Ha !! OMG....you are a silly woman. Go put your cell phone on vibrate and call yourself. LOL ! Have a blast !! Give me 2 and get out of my face. ROFLMAO !!!!!

Answer 9

there was a girl who was very in love with me, and I sort of lead her on but I did hurt her when I broke up with her. I have apologized many times and made up my mind never to do that again.

Answer 10

Yes, sadly. I never wished to do so, but there was no other way. We were not supposed to be together forever and I'm glad he found his soul mate and has a wonderful family, now.:)