I am a 9th grader now. and I have liked a certian Girl, sience the 6th grade. She found out when i was in the 6th grade. but i was too shy around her to do anything about it. Now i know her, but am not reall a "Friend" as much as a person she knows. I do know her AIM. But am too shy to tell her that I like her. and i dont want to scare her away. I would like to talk to her in any other way than AIM. But i dont see her b/c its the summer. And i am going to a diffrent school than her this year. But still live in the same city. and I really dont know what to do. I cant look at a picture of any girl without thinking about her. She is the most important thing to me. I really just dont know what to do.
She is online on AIM now, but i can't seem to bring myself to tell her. And the only other way i know to tell her is Through Myspace.
Someone Please Help Me!!! I am in a Pickle, and dont know what to do :(
2006-07-29 20:56:33 · 3 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
JUst IM her on AIM and start talking and just bring it up!
2006-07-29 21:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Dorothy Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a message either on AIM or on myspace, but be super chill- you have to back off a little, or you're going to scare her!
I think myspace might be better, because you don't have to worry about her wondering how you found her...obviously you must have mutual friends.
Don't get all serious and tell her she's all you think about- it's just too much information in the beginning. Wait to see how she responds to you first.
Just say hey, how's your summer, etc, etc. Eventually maybe you can say something like, I was thinking about going to xyz (the movies, music show, the mall, etc), you want to meet up?
Once you've hung out a couple of times, then you can tell her how you feel about her.
2006-07-30 04:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by keengrrl76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say start talking to her on AIM but don't start telling her how much you like her right away. Develope a relationship with her and you never know, maybe she'll begin to like you too. Just be yourself and everything will be okay. But if she doesn't like you back don't dread on it much. She probably isn't the person for you and you will probably find her soon enough. :)
2006-07-30 04:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Emily B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋